Parenting

For many Thai parents, the chaos that can erupt when picking up children from school—bags tossed, tempers flaring, tears streaming—can feel mystifying and exhausting. While hunger or tiredness are often blamed, a growing body of psychological research now confirms that “after-school restraint collapse” is a scientifically recognized phenomenon: children, after a day of tightly controlling their behavior, decompress explosively in their safe home environment.

International experts are drawing attention to restraint collapse as a key explanation for why young students, acclaimed by teachers as model pupils, often transform into a whirlwind of emotions the moment they arrive home. According to a recent report by HuffPost UK and mental health professionals like a British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) counsellor, these post-school meltdowns result from the intense mental, emotional, and social effort children invest in conforming to external expectations throughout the school day (HuffPost UK).

A new wave of fatherhood is challenging old stereotypes—yet for many men, the struggle against inherited patterns of anger remains deeply personal. Recent guidance from therapists and parenting specialists, as reported in a widely circulated HuffPost feature, reveals practical strategies to help fathers avoid becoming the “angry dad,” even if that was the model they grew up with. This latest spotlight is highly relevant to modern Thai society, where intergenerational parenting influences and evolving gender roles are increasingly discussed, but rarely so frankly on the subject of paternal emotional health.

A new study reported by The Times reveals that parenthood, while generally linked to higher life satisfaction compared to remaining childless, does not guarantee happiness for all—particularly for those who begin parenting at a younger age or have multiple children. This nuanced insight challenges simplistic ideas about family, personal fulfillment, and mental health, raising essential questions for Thai families navigating choices about when, or whether, to start a family.

Across global societies, having children is often seen as a marker of adulthood and personal achievement. In Thailand, traditional values place family at the center of social life, with many expecting individuals to eventually marry and start families. But the latest research underscores that the benefits of parenthood are not the same for everyone, and factors such as the age of first-time parents, number of children, relationship quality, education, and economic security all play a critical role.

A heated family debate over the use of tracking devices like AirTags to monitor children has sparked fresh discussion among parenting experts and child psychologists, as technology makes surveillance ever more accessible—even as trust and autonomy remain central pillars of healthy childhood development. The controversy, highlighted by a recent Slate advice column, lays bare a wider societal dilemma facing Thai and international families alike: How much is too much when it comes to monitoring kids for safety?

The passage from secondary school to university marks a profound transformation in family relationships—a reality increasingly recognized by Thai parents as their children head off to college. Recent discussions in international media, such as a feature in Business Insider about evolving parent-child dynamics when children attend university, are amplifying a topic that resonates strongly within Thailand’s own households. As more families engage with higher education, they are encountering new challenges—and opportunities—for connection, growth, and mutual understanding.

Global pop icon Rihanna has spoken candidly about how the legacy of her late father has fundamentally shaped her approach to raising her young children, offering insight into the profound influence familial bonds and childhood experiences have on parenting decisions. The singer, entrepreneur, and soon-to-be mother of three shared that her father’s recent passing in May at age 70 not only marked an emotional chapter in her life but also sparked reflection on the values she seeks to pass down to her sons—RZA, age three, Riot, nearly two, and a third child on the way with partner A$AP Rocky.

A recent viral article highlighting 47 extreme punishments experienced by children at the hands of their parents is fueling worldwide conversations over appropriate parenting, child welfare, and the thin line between discipline and abuse. Titled “That’s Torture”: 47 Children’s Punishments That Only Showed How Unfit Their Parents Were, the piece has generated an outpouring of personal stories, expert warnings, and demands for greater awareness of children’s rights, including among Thai families and educators.

A growing wave of American parents are putting their own financial health and retirement plans at risk to help their adult children stay afloat—often at significant personal expense. Recent surveys and first-person accounts reveal that nearly half of American parents are now providing some level of financial assistance to their children over 18, signaling a profound shift in traditional family economics. Rising living costs, stagnating wages, and soaring housing prices have made it increasingly difficult for young adults to become financially independent, prompting many to return to the family home and rely on parental support long into adulthood.

As the annual debate over how children should spend their lengthy school holidays reignites, a recent viral essay by an American mother has sparked conversation about the virtue—and potential pitfalls—of letting kids sleep late, use screens, and simply do nothing all summer. The article, published on July 13, 2025, by Business Insider, describes a parent intentionally allowing her children the freedom to enjoy “lazy days” reminiscent of 1980s summers: sleeping in, relaxing at home, and engaging in unstructured leisure, often involving digital devices. This parenting decision, while resonant for many, raises important questions about the effects of unrestricted sleep, screen use, and downtime on children’s health, social development, and academic readiness—concerns that resonate with Thai families as school and community routines transform during the long summer break.

A rapidly growing body of research and real-world accounts reveal a significant shift in family dynamics worldwide, as more grandparents are stepping into the role of primary caregivers for young children—sometimes from the moment they’re born. This trend, which was recently thrown into sharp relief by a viral family advice story about parents “taking a break” from active childrearing since their baby’s birth, underscores the complex realities and pressures facing modern families today (Slate).

A growing number of parents and experts worldwide are highlighting that some “normal” parenting rules—long considered standard—may in fact cause lasting emotional damage to children, according to the latest digital debate and emerging scientific research. Recent discussions, sparked by a widely shared BuzzFeed article in July 2025, show how social media communities and mental health professionals increasingly question rules like constant teasing, forced affection, tough love, the suppression of children’s emotions, and respect for hierarchy regardless of mutual respect. Thai families, renowned for their warmth but also shaped by traditional hierarchies, may find these revelations particularly meaningful as the nation grapples with global trends in parenting and mental health.

As the long Thai school holidays approach, a wave of questions arises about the way parents handle everyday misbehavior in young children. A recent discussion ignited by the article “Why shouldn’t we call children ‘naughty’?” from The Spectator challenges the conventional wisdom of using labels like “naughty” to describe children’s bad behavior. The apparent simplicity of the term belies its potential to shape a child’s developing sense of self and influence the way children respond to authority, discipline, and emotional challenges—not just in Western societies but also within Thai families adjusting to modern parenting philosophies.

Across the world, including in Thailand, a quiet revolution is reshaping the priorities of military families as they increasingly place long-term stability and well-being above salary benefits. A recent feature from Business Insider shares a personal account from the United States, where a soldier left the armed forces after 10 years despite a pay cut, motivated by the desire to provide greater stability for his family. This resonates strongly with Thai society, where similar issues around military service, work-life balance, and family well-being have become more prominent in public discourse.

As concerns about children’s mental health and screen dependency rise globally, the call to “rewild” children—allowing them to spend summer away from smartphones—has become a powerful trend. Drawing inspiration from recent recommendations by the Raising the Nation Play Commission in the UK, new evidence suggests that a phone-free summer might not only curb digital overuse but also foster resilience, happiness, and social skills in young people. This movement comes at a crucial time as research and parent anecdotes paint a portrait of a generation described as “sedentary, scrolling and alone,” with smartphone use implicated in declining childhood wellbeing (The Times).

As Thai families increasingly span wider age gaps between children, a modern parenting conundrum is emerging: teenagers taking on the parental role over much younger siblings, especially toddlers. A recent episode of Slate’s acclaimed “Care and Feeding” parenting podcast brought this issue into sharp focus, featuring a parent struggling with two teens who have set themselves up as disciplinarians over their four-year-old sibling. Experts warn this blurring of roles—known in psychology as “parentification”—may have long-term consequences for both the child and the adolescent family members, with important implications for Thai households experiencing similar dynamics (slate.com).

As divorce rates remain steady, a new trend in co-parenting, called “birdnesting,” is drawing interest from parents worldwide—including in Thailand. The latest research and high-profile features, such as a recent piece in the Washington Post, shed light on how divorced couples are choosing to share the family home for the benefit of their children, even as they formally split as partners.

In a compelling case described by the Washington Post, parents who divorced chose to prioritize the stability of their children by keeping the family home as a shared, central residence. Rather than constantly moving their children back and forth between two homes, the former couple rotated in and out of the family apartment on a set schedule. This arrangement, dubbed “birdnesting,” is designed to minimize disruption for children during an often tumultuous period and to ensure that family routines and environments can be maintained, at least during the adjustment to a new family dynamic. According to the report, the former couple maintained an informal custody agreement, with the mother and father alternating time with their three children, leaving and arriving at clearly stipulated intervals to reduce friction Washington Post.

As Thailand’s healthcare system modernises and more children with complex health needs survive and thrive, a crucial question is gaining prominence: are we truly supporting the parents who shoulder the day-to-day care of sick or disabled children—or could we be unintentionally making their burden heavier? Echoing concerns raised in a recent commentary by The Guardian, leading-edge research highlights that while the journey of parenting often appears communal, families dealing with illness or disability travel a far lonelier, more taxing road that requires nuanced support from society, healthcare providers, and government systems (The Guardian).

New research is shedding light on the complex challenges faced by families raising children with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), highlighting strategies that can foster family balance despite often overwhelming circumstances. As one of the most common childhood mental health diagnoses worldwide, ADHD not only disrupts classroom performance but reverberates through family life, impacting emotional well-being, relationships, and daily routines. The latest findings underscore the need for better understanding, targeted supports, and culturally sensitive guidance—an issue of growing urgency for Thai families grappling with rising ADHD diagnoses.

As divorce rates in Thailand and across the globe continue to rise, families are searching for innovative ways to support children through parental separation. One approach gaining international attention, and now prompting discussion among Thai experts, is “birdnesting”—an arrangement where children remain in the family home while separated parents alternate living there. According to a recent report by ABC News Australia, this “modern collaborative” form of co-parenting is increasingly being considered by parents hoping to minimize disruption in their children’s lives during emotionally turbulent times (abc.net.au).

A new wave of millennial fathers is pushing to share parenting duties equally with their partners, but workplace culture and longstanding gender norms continue to place significant barriers in their way, according to recent research and widespread expert commentary. This growing tension between the desire to be present fathers and the realities of contemporary work life raises essential questions for families, companies, and policymakers not only in Western countries but also in societies like Thailand, where gender roles and work cultures are rapidly evolving.

A recent incident has ignited considerable public discussion about empathy, etiquette, and the complexity of family dynamics after a woman walked out of a baby shower she had organized, following an insensitive joke from the expectant mother referencing the host’s struggles with infertility. The story, originating from an online forum and reported by Yahoo Lifestyle, has since garnered widespread attention, highlighting the profound emotional impact of infertility and the importance of sensitivity in social interactions.

Adopted teenagers navigate the world of romance and relationships in much the same way as their non-adopted peers, according to new research published recently. The study, highlighted by PsyPost, challenges longstanding assumptions about adoption and adolescent adjustment, offering reassurance to families and educators in Thailand and around the world.

This finding is of particular significance in Thailand, where societal attitudes towards adoption have slowly shifted but misconceptions persist. Parents and educators often worry that adopted youths may struggle emotionally or socially in ways that their non-adopted counterparts do not—especially in areas as complex as teenage love, dating, and intimacy.

An eye-opening new investigation is unraveling the hidden layers of the ultra-wealthy’s personal lives, revealing that vast fortunes do not necessarily insulate individuals from emotional challenges or problematic behaviors. Friends, aides, and associates of billionaires and multimillionaires have disclosed a tapestry of secrets, painting a picture of high drama, emotional volatility, and even compulsive hoarding behind closed doors—offering a rare look at the underbelly of luxury living.

This research, highlighted in a recent Daily Mail report, compiles anecdotes from those intimately familiar with the ultra-rich. Among the revelations: explosive tantrums triggered by minor inconveniences, elaborate rituals of control over staff, and shocking hoarding episodes where designer goods and prized objects accumulate in chaotic, unsanitary piles. Such accounts fundamentally challenge the public’s common perception of wealthy lifestyles as effortless, orderly, or immune to everyday anxieties.

A spate of summer holidays and the growing challenge of accessible childcare have reignited debate among parents and policymakers: how young is too young to leave a child alone at home? A recent analysis based on Florida guidance, echoed in national recommendations, is drawing attention abroad—and raises important considerations for Thai families facing similar modern realities. According to a recent Miami Herald report, while Florida does not set a legal minimum age for children to stay home alone, state guidance and expert organizations generally recommend children under age 12 should not be left unsupervised, with those aged 12 and above suitable for short stints alone if they have shown maturity and preparedness.