Parenting

A growing global trend shows children entering puberty earlier than previous generations. A new book by a leading US clinical psychologist, reinforced by international research, signals far-reaching implications for physical and mental health. For Thai families, understanding early puberty and how to support children through it is increasingly essential.

Puberty has long marked the transition from childhood to adolescence, typically beginning around age 10 for girls and 12 for boys. Recently, doctors and parents note signs of development in children as young as six. As urban living increases in Thailand and academic pressures grow, the gap between physical changes and emotional readiness widens. Observers say ages six to twelve are a critical window for guiding children before adolescence accelerates.

A new wave of discussion is sweeping Thailand about co-sleeping with children beyond infancy. Prompted by recent commentary and global reporting, Thai parents and experts are weighing traditional practices against evolving research to decide what works best for their families.

For generations, co-sleeping—sharing a bed or bedroom with a child—has been deeply rooted in Thai culture as a way to strengthen closeness, emotional security, and family bonds. In multi-generational households with limited space, many families find it practical and comforting. Yet as Western parenting ideas influence conversations and child-development research expands, more Thai parents are considering when, or if, children should sleep independently.

A viral confession about intergenerational pressure has sparked a broader debate in Thailand over expectations around marriage, children, and support networks. The discussion echoes a global conversation: older parents urging their children to start families, while real-world backing often falls short once grandchildren arrive. The conversation is playing out online and in households across Thailand, where traditional norms still shape life choices.

According to reports, the video highlighted a stark gap between persistent parental urging to “settle down and have a family” and the practical help—or lack thereof—some grandparents provide after grandchildren come into the world. The message resonates with many Thai and international Millennials and Gen Z adults who feel constrained by long-standing expectations without reliable community or family backing.

A recent viral video has reignited a global discussion about the generational double standards around family-building, as one woman called out baby boomer parents for pressuring their children to have kids—only to withhold meaningful support once the grandchildren arrived. The conversation, which originated from a candid social media confession, has led to broader debate in Thailand, where societal expectations around marriage, parenthood, and intergenerational care remain deeply rooted.

The woman’s video, reported by Upworthy, struck a chord with viewers by highlighting the gap between the persistent urging of older parents for their children to “settle down and have a family,” and the reality that, once grandchildren arrive, practical help—from babysitting to emotional support—can be limited or conditional. The case mirrors experiences shared by many Millennial and Gen Z adults globally, including those in Thai society, who feel squeezed by traditional expectations without adequate communal or familial backing (Upworthy).

In a groundbreaking push for gender equality and better parental support, British fathers are being urged to join the world’s first “Dad strike”, amplifying demands for more generous paternity leave in the United Kingdom, where statutory provisions remain among the lowest in Europe. The movement is set to culminate in a public protest with fathers and their babies outside the Department for Business and Trade in London on June 11, aiming to pressure the government into reforming policies for dads and non-birthing partners. The campaign reflects growing international attention to the critical role of fathers in early childhood and the wider debate about work-life balance amid changing social norms.

British fathers are organizing the world’s first “Dad strike” to demand broader, better-paid paternity leave. The protest outside the Department for Business and Trade in London on June 11 aims to press the government for reforms that support dads and non-birthing partners. The movement underscores the growing recognition of fathers’ essential role in early childhood and the ongoing work-life balance debate.

For Thai readers, the issues resonate with Thailand’s own family policy debates and evolving family structures. In the UK, eligible fathers and non-birthing partners currently receive only two weeks of leave at a rate below the minimum wage, and self-employed co-parents receive no state support. In contrast, mothers can receive up to 90% of their average weekly earnings for the first six weeks, followed by a fixed rate for the next 33 weeks. Campaigners say these gaps reinforce gender inequality and limit children’s access to parental care. Research cited by advocates emphasizes the broader social costs of insufficient paternity support.

Daycare workers around the world are increasingly grappling with a wave of unusual, demanding, and sometimes inappropriate requests from parents, according to recent reports and research, with frustration reaching a boiling point in the sector. As early childhood education faces mounting pressures post-pandemic, these revelations are shining a light on challenges that affect not only childcare providers but also Thai families navigating the evolving landscape of daycare services.

Interest in this issue has surged following a widely shared exposé published by the New York Post, where daycare workers anonymously shared some of the most unreasonable demands they’ve received from parents—from requiring staff to use gold-plated cutlery for a toddler’s lunch to covertly punishing other children on behalf of a parent’s grudge. While the stories sound sensational, they reflect a documented trend: the rise of what educators call “helicopter” and “lawnmower” parenting, where adults attempt to eliminate any perceived obstacle or stress from their child’s path.

A rising parenting approach called FAFO—short for “fuck around and find out”—is gaining attention on social media and sparking debate among parents and child-development experts. The method advocates letting children learn from natural consequences with minimal intervention. While proponents say it builds independence and resilience, health and education professionals warn that outcomes vary, especially for Thai families balancing modern life with long-standing traditions.

The concept gained traction after a prominent U.S. television figure discussed it on a podcast, recounting moments where children refused to wear hats in cold weather or resisted spicy foods. The idea is simple: step back from constant control and allow children to discover why rules exist through experience, even if it means some discomfort or minor mishaps. According to research on experiential learning, letting kids encounter consequences can strengthen problem-solving skills and self-reliance.

A new parenting trend known as FAFO, short for “fuck around and find out,” is captivating social media audiences and sparking debate among parents and child development specialists. This approach, now viral on platforms like Instagram and TikTok, encourages guardians to let children learn from the natural consequences of their actions with minimal intervention. While it claims to promote independence and resilience, health and education experts caution that results can be mixed, particularly for Thai families navigating a modernizing society with deep-rooted traditional values. (HuffPost)

New research into the world’s most Googled parenting questions sheds light on the universal worries and challenges facing families, while also highlighting how Thai parents are adapting to rapid social and technological change. As digital platforms become the primary source of parenting information, data from global and local trends suggests parents are eager for authoritative guidance on childcare, health, and navigating family life in a fast-moving world (Times of India).

A recent Slate parenting piece sparked renewed interest in how siblings’ cautionary tales can shape a child’s fear of monsters. The case centers on a nearly three-year-old who grew terrified of her own backyard after her older brother invented a lake monster to keep her away from a dangerous dock. Despite repeated reassurance, the fear persisted, sparking a broader discussion about bedtime fear and the need for parental comfort. This narrative resonates with Thai families, where stories of spirits and natural dangers are deeply rooted in culture, yet can carry emotional consequences for young children.

A recent story published in Slate’s parenting advice column has sparked fresh debate and research interest into the psychological underpinnings of childhood fears—especially those triggered by well-meaning siblings. The case involved an almost-3-year-old who suddenly became terrified of going in her own backyard after her older brother invented a lake monster to keep her away from a potentially dangerous dock. Despite attempts to reassure her that the monster was not real, the fear caused lasting distress, including a newfound fear of the dark and the need for parental comfort at bedtime (Slate).

A recent surge in psychological and sociological research has ignited debate about how families should raise boys, with new findings showing that affectionate, patient, and emotionally engaged parenting is just as crucial for sons as it is for daughters—even more so, in some cases. This growing body of evidence, highlighted in a recent Atlantic feature, challenges long-held beliefs about masculinity, toughness, and what boys truly need to thrive, both in Western contexts and, importantly, for parents and educators across Thailand grappling with similar generational pressures.

A growing number of individuals worldwide are falling prey to online “relationships” defined not by emotional support or companionship, but by a steady financial outflow—often in just one direction. Recent international reports reveal a dramatic rise in romance scams, echoing the concerns of agony columns like “Dear Abby,” where readers describe partnerships that only seem to involve sending money, not receiving genuine affection. Behind the stories are stark statistics and sophisticated scam operations that have made digital platforms a hotbed for financial exploitation under the guise of love.

The pandemic reshaped family life worldwide, and Thailand is no exception. Fathers are taking on more active roles in childcare and daily routines, a trend that appears to persist beyond lockdowns. This shift matters not just for families but for Thai society, signaling evolving parenting norms and social expectations.

Before 2020, Thai culture often pictured fathers as primary breadwinners, while mothers handled day-to-day childcare and household tasks. The COVID-19 era disrupted these norms, with remote work and school closures forcing parents to stay home. Many fathers began assisting with online schooling, meal preparation, and playtime, marking a notable departure from traditional roles.

A growing body of psychological and sociological research suggests that affectionate, patient, and emotionally engaged parenting matters just as much for boys as for girls—sometimes even more for boys’ emotional health. New findings challenge traditional ideas of masculinity and show that early nurturing shapes outcomes in education, behavior, and mental well-being. This is especially relevant for Thai parents and educators navigating changing family dynamics and modern pressures.

Long-standing ideas about raising boys to be “tough” can overlook their emotional needs. Global studies indicate that parents often talk, read, and sing more to daughters and feel closer to them in early childhood. When fathers and mothers have limited time or emotional bandwidth for boys, boys may miss opportunities to develop healthy emotion regulation. Such patterns can contribute to later behavioral and mental health challenges.

A growing global phenomenon sees people drawn into online “relationships” that drain money rather than provide affection. New analyses show a sharp increase in romance scams, where scammers exploit loneliness and trust to extract funds. The pattern is now a pressing public concern that requires practical awareness and action.

For Thailand, where internet and smartphone use continues to rise and dating apps grow in popularity across generations, the risk is highly relevant. Generosity and hospitality are core Thai values, but criminals exploit these traits through manipulation, empathy, and fake emergencies. The question, “Is it still a relationship if only one person sends money?” reflects a real, evolving threat that Thai communities must confront.

Daycare workers worldwide report a surge in unusual and demanding requests from parents, reflecting mounting pressures in early childhood education after the pandemic. For Thai families navigating expanding daycare options, these insights underscore how expectations at home can influence classroom dynamics and staff wellbeing.

The conversation intensified after a widely shared exposé in a major outlet, where educators anonymously described extreme parental demands. Examples range from insisting on gold-plated utensils for a toddler’s lunch to covertly punishing other children on behalf of a parent’s grievance. While these anecdotes may seem sensational, they align with a broader pattern experts call helicopter and lawnmower parenting—parents who try to remove every obstacle from a child’s path.

The COVID-19 pandemic fundamentally redefined family life across the globe, with Thailand seeing its own transformation as fathers take on more active roles in childcare and family routines. Recent reports, including an op-ed from The New York Times, highlight a growing trend: dads are spending more time with their children since the pandemic, and this pattern appears to be holding steady post-pandemic (nytimes.com). This shift has significance not only for families but for the broader social fabric, raising questions about the future of parenting roles in Thailand and beyond.

New global findings reveal the most Googled parenting questions, shedding light on universal worries and how Thai families are adapting to rapid social and tech change. As digital platforms become the main source of parenting advice, Thai parents increasingly seek authoritative, science-backed guidance on childcare, health, and everyday family life in a fast-moving world.

Thai readers will recognize familiar concerns: Why isn’t my baby sleeping? How can I soothe a crying child? How should we handle picky eating or bedwetting? When will my child start talking? These questions top search lists worldwide, illustrating how the internet unites parents while local values shape the answers.

A growing body of research suggests that children who bully others share more similarities with their victims than commonly thought, with both groups facing heightened risks of anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and even future difficulties in adulthood. This pattern also holds true in Thailand, where bullying—whether in the classroom, online gaming communities, or even at home—remains a persistent challenge, deeply intertwined with the nation’s education and mental health systems.

The latest findings highlighted by a Clemson University psychology professor reveal that traditional bullying (physical or verbal aggression in person) and cyberbullying (harassment via digital platforms) often overlap, amplifying the negative outcomes for all children involved. Both bullies and victims are more likely to suffer poor academic performance, increased absenteeism, and, alarmingly, higher rates of suicidal thoughts. “It’s bidirectional,” reports the Clemson researcher, who explains that a child’s mental health troubles both set the stage for bullying behavior and are worsened by involvement in bullying, no matter the role (Deseret News).

A growing body of scientific research highlights how small morning habits can sharpen children’s thinking and support healthier lifestyles. Thai parents and teachers are taking notice, as international features discuss practical routines that families can weave into daily life to boost intelligence, focus, and academic success.

Researchers point to the first hours after waking as crucial for a child’s brain development. Educators in Thailand are eager to translate this knowledge into classroom and home practices that help close learning gaps and strengthen long-term health. Data from Thailand’s Ministry of Public Health indicates that everyday habits play a meaningful role in children’s well-being and school readiness.

A growing body of research reshapes how Thai parents and educators view boys’ development. Findings highlighted in The Atlantic’s piece on parents of boys show that social norms and expectations — not biology — largely shape boys’ education, emotional health, and long-term success. This matters in Thailand, where evolving gender roles meet traditional values and national education debates.

Historically, many believed boys are naturally less verbal, less emotionally tuned, and more prone to behavioral issues. New studies, however, indicate these patterns arise from how adults interact with boys from infancy. Research cited in The Atlantic suggests the nurture gap begins early, with adults often speaking less and offering fewer emotionally rich interactions to baby boys than to girls.

New research is shining a spotlight on middle childhood (age 5 to 12), challenging the idea that these years are merely a transition between early childhood and adolescence. Studies and expert commentary suggest this period lays the groundwork for lifelong mental health, learning, and social skills. For Thai readers, the findings resonate with local values around harmony, discipline, and community involvement, while also highlighting areas where Thai schools and families can support children more effectively.