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Parents of Autistic Children Push Back Against RFK Jr.'s Comments: "Don't Ever Say My Children Are a Burden"

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A wave of outrage has erupted across the autism community in response to recent statements by Robert F. Kennedy Jr., who claimed that “autism destroys families” and characterized the condition as a societal burden. Parents and advocates have taken to the airwaves and social media to reject Kennedy’s portrayal of autism, demanding a shift in narrative toward acceptance and inclusion rather than stigma and despair. As families in Thailand and around the world contend with increasing autism diagnoses, this controversy highlights the ongoing struggle over how society perceives and supports individuals on the autism spectrum.

Kennedy’s remarks were made in the context of broader discussions around autism prevalence and healthcare policy. He suggested that the rise in autism rates represents not only a medical issue, but also a cause of significant hardship for affected families. Many parents recoiled at this characterization. “Don’t ever say my children are a burden,” responded one mother in an emotional post gaining traction online, echoing the sentiments of countless families who find purpose and meaning—not only challenges—in raising their autistic children, according to a report by Fortune magazine (source: Fortune, April 21, 2025).

For Thai readers, this debate resonates deeply amid rising autism diagnoses in Thailand and a slowly evolving landscape for developmental support services. According to Thailand’s Ministry of Public Health, the prevalence of autism spectrum disorder (ASD) continues to climb, mirroring global trends. Total figures vary by year and survey method, but certain epidemiological reports estimate that at least 1 in every 250 Thai children may be somewhere on the autism spectrum, a statistic similar to global figures (source: World Health Organization Thailand profile).

The roots of RFK Jr.’s claims harken back to long-standing views of autism as a profound burden—a perspective increasingly challenged by self-advocates, researchers, and modern families. Recent studies published in peer-reviewed journals, including a 2022 article on parental stress in Kazakhstan and a 2015 economic study from the UK, confirm that while raising a child with autism can be associated with added stress, anxiety, and resource requirements (source: PubMed), these family experiences are diverse and shaped by social supports, community acceptance, and access to services—not simply by the child’s diagnosis itself.

Experts stress the importance of moving away from narratives that reduce autistic individuals to problems or statistics. Dr. Geraldine Dawson, a leading autism researcher at Duke University, told CNN that “Such stigmatizing language does real harm. It overlooks the strengths, resilience, and achievements of autistic people and their families” (source: CNN, April 19, 2025). Thai autism advocate Nittaya Paiboon of the Autism Parents Network Thailand emphasized in a recent interview that, “Every family has its own challenges, but we find joy too. Our children are individuals, not burdens. When society treats us with understanding, we thrive.”

Criticism of Kennedy’s remarks was swift and widespread, including from prominent advocacy groups like Autism Speaks and the Autistic Self Advocacy Network, as well as from researchers who challenged the scientific accuracy of his claims. According to The New York Times, Kennedy also asserted that autism is “preventable,” a claim sharply rejected by leading scientists, who cite a complex interplay of genetic and environmental factors underlying autism with no known way to provide complete prevention (source: The New York Times, April 16, 2025).

This intense debate has important implications for Thailand, where access to early intervention, inclusive education, and community support remains unequal. While major cities such as Bangkok and Chiang Mai offer specialized schools and clinics, many families in rural areas still face barriers to diagnosis and services. Thai traditions of close-knit family support can provide strength, but societal misunderstanding and stigma often lead to isolation or discrimination against autistic children and their caregivers. Thailand’s push toward an inclusive society, championed by the Universal Coverage Scheme and recent disability rights legislation, is slowly helping to break down these barriers. Yet, as parents point out, harmful stereotypes—like those promoted in Kennedy’s comments—still set back progress.

Historically, Thai cultural attitudes toward disability have been shaped by a blend of Buddhist acceptance and, at times, beliefs in karma or fate. In recent years, however, active campaigning by parent networks and disability rights groups has begun to change public perceptions of autism from a “problem to be hidden” to a “difference to be understood.” Major temples host charity events for developmental disabilities, and animated Thai educational series like “Khon Dee Khong Rae” feature autistic characters in positive roles, helping normalize diverse abilities among Thai youth.

Looking ahead, experts warn that narratives describing autistic people as burdens could dissuade policymakers from investing in inclusive education, workplace accommodations, and lifelong care—a risk with concrete consequences for Thailand’s future. International research such as the Pre-School Autism Communication Trial (PACT) has shown that early, parent-mediated interventions can improve outcomes and reduce long-term costs (source: PubMed). For a country like Thailand, with growing numbers of ASD diagnoses and limited specialist workforce, supporting family-centered and community-based care is critical.

Dr. Sirirat Prasatthong, a developmental pediatrician at Siriraj Hospital, told the Bangkok Post: “We must move away from blame and burden, and instead focus on empowerment—building systems where every autistic person and their family has the support they need to reach their full potential.” She added that parents need recognition of both their difficulties and achievements, calling for more public education to reduce stigma.

For Thai parents and policymakers, this episode is a call to action to amplify positive narratives about autism, prioritize inclusive policies, and invest in research that reflects the true diversity of family experience. Practical steps include expanding teacher training on inclusive education, supporting Thai-language resources for autistic families, and promoting workplace diversity initiatives—actions that can help every child, autistic or not, to contribute fully to society.

In closing, the recent controversy serves as a reminder that language matters: How we talk about autism shapes how we treat autistic people. As Thailand continues its journey toward greater inclusion, let us reject harmful stereotypes and instead embrace the strength of every family. For parents—แม่ พ่อ—who have spoken up in defense of their children, their courage invites us all to see autism as a difference, not a disaster.

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