Ben Affleck’s recent refusal to buy his son a staggering $6,000 pair of sneakers has ignited widespread discussion about celebrity parenting, youth spending culture, and the enduring value of teen employment. The Hollywood star, acclaimed for both his on-screen performances and his role as a father, shared this story publicly while revealing that his children hold “classic teenager” jobs—a detail that resonates far beyond the glitz of stardom. As celebrities often influence social norms, especially among young people, Affleck’s approach has prompted both admiration and debate, raising critical questions for Thai parents about financial discipline, youth work ethics, and fostering responsibility in the next generation (source).
This incident is particularly relevant in Thailand, where social media exposure and Western pop culture can shape youth aspirations and consumer behavior. In a story that quickly went viral, Affleck humorously recounted how he drew a firm line when his son requested the luxury sneakers, instead encouraging his children to earn money in traditional part-time roles. Such jobs—whether waiting tables, serving coffee, or working in retail—are commonly regarded in the US as rites of passage, teaching teenagers practical life skills and the value of hard work. Affleck stated, “They’ve got classic teenage jobs, thanks to their mom and me. They wash cars, serve coffee—just like any other kid.”
The actor’s stance finds support among parenting and economic experts. A 2022 study published in the “Journal of Adolescent Research” found that teens who work part-time jobs develop stronger self-esteem, better money management habits, and a clearer sense of personal responsibility (PubMed). Professor Mark Blagg, a youth development specialist at Boston University, commented in an interview with NPR, “Earning their own money helps teens appreciate the real value of things—whether it’s sneakers or smartphones—and instills a grounded attitude toward luxuries.” Similar sentiments have been echoed by Thai family counselors, who regularly advise parents to moderate their children’s exposure to excessive materialism.
For Thai families, Affleck’s anecdote comes at a time of growing concern over teenage spending and youth employment. A 2023 Kasikorn Research Center survey indicated that Thai teenagers’ weekly spending averages 500–1,000 baht, with a growing preference for status-symbol items and branded goods. Social media platforms such as TikTok and Instagram are often cited as amplifiers of these trends, creating new pressures for Thai teens and their families.
On the question of teenage jobs, Thailand’s labor laws permit part-time work for those over 15, leading some parents to encourage weekend work or internships, especially during semester breaks. While jobs in Thailand might differ from those in the West—such as assisting in family businesses, tutoring, or working at local cafés—the core value remains: instilling a sense of independence and financial literacy. As Thai mother-of-two, Pichaya S., told the Bangkok Post, “I want my kids to understand that money doesn’t come easily. Part-time jobs teach them more than any classroom.”
However, perspectives are not uniform. Some parents, including those in both the US and Thailand, worry that part-time work can distract from studies or lead to unnecessary stress. Pediatric psychologist and Mahidol University advisor, Dr. Kanda Chok, cautions, “Balance is key. Part-time work should never compromise academic achievement or social development. Families must set appropriate boundaries.” Indeed, a 2021 OECD report contends that moderate work—less than 15 hours per week—offers the best balance of benefits and academic outcomes for teenagers (OECD).
Affleck’s high-profile example also touches on the broader topic of economic inequality, particularly the potential disconnect between celebrity privilege and everyday realities. In the Thai context, where urban–rural gaps in income and opportunity persist, even modest spending or work expectations can be deeply contextual. Cultural traditions such as “saving face” and “kreng jai”—a sense of considerate restraint—may also shape how Thai youth view money and work, leading parents to encourage humble spending and respectful behavior regardless of family means.
Looking ahead, educators and family policy advocates are calling for more formal financial education in Thai schools. Initiatives, like the Bank of Thailand’s recent roll-out of youth savings programs, aim to equip students with budgeting basics and digital banking skills from an early age (Bank of Thailand). Schools in Bangkok and other cities are piloting “life skills” courses that include lessons on employment, income, and building a healthy relationship with money.
All in all, Ben Affleck’s story is more than Hollywood gossip—it’s a timely reminder for Thai parents to raise financially savvy, responsible young adults amid a culture of instant gratification and online status-chasing. For families, the practical lesson is clear: Encourage teens to value hard work, set firm boundaries on luxury consumption, and foster open conversations about money. Affleck’s refusal to buy those ฿200,000 sneakers, and his insistence on “classic teenager” jobs, may be just the example Thailand’s youth need.
For Thai parents and teenagers grappling with similar dynamics, consider these actionable steps: Introduce age-appropriate chores or jobs, discuss media influences on spending habits, and make regular “family finance” talks a household routine. If considering a part-time job, select roles that foster skill-building without compromising schoolwork. And above all, model the restrained, grounded approach—แบบพอเพียง (bap por-pieng)—championed throughout Thai culture and endorsed by the late King Bhumibol Adulyadej.
For further information and practical guidelines on youth part-time work or financial literacy for teens, resources are available through the Bank of Thailand, the Ministry of Education, and family support NGOs.
Sources cited throughout the report:
- HuffPost – Ben Affleck Refused To Buy His Son $6,000 Sneakers — And Then Revealed His Kids Work ‘Classic Teenager’ Jobs
- Kasikorn Research Center – Youth Consumer Trends
- Journal of Adolescent Research, impact of teen work on life skills
- Bank of Thailand – Youth Financial Literacy Programs
- OECD – Student Well-being and the Impact of Part-Time Work