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Thai Fathers Stepping Up: The Post-Pandemic Shift in Dad-Child Bonding

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The COVID-19 pandemic fundamentally redefined family life across the globe, with Thailand seeing its own transformation as fathers take on more active roles in childcare and family routines. Recent reports, including an op-ed from The New York Times, highlight a growing trend: dads are spending more time with their children since the pandemic, and this pattern appears to be holding steady post-pandemic (nytimes.com). This shift has significance not only for families but for the broader social fabric, raising questions about the future of parenting roles in Thailand and beyond.

Before 2020, Thai society, like many in Asia, often cast fathers as financial providers rather than hands-on caregivers. Traditional roles meant that daily childcare, education support, and household duties typically fell to mothers or female relatives, especially in multigenerational homes. This norm was upended during the COVID-19 crisis. Lockdowns, remote work, and school closures required parents to stay home, and fathers became more involved—helping with online schooling, preparing meals, and managing playtime.

Data from global studies confirm this pattern beyond anecdote. For example, a large-scale UK study published in 2021 found that during lockdowns, fathers nearly doubled their caregiving hours, and a follow-up in 2023 observed that, for many, these habits persisted even after returning to the office (ScienceDirect). Although comprehensive statistics specific to Thailand are limited, the National Statistical Office’s annual Survey of the Social Situation of Thai Households has indicated a gradual uptick in reported paternal engagement since 2020 (NSO, Thailand).

Expert opinions bolster the observed trend. A senior researcher at the Institute for Population and Social Research at Mahidol University noted, “The pandemic disrupted routines in ways that allowed men to experience day-to-day childrearing—many discovered both the joy and difficulty of being more present fathers.” Thai Council on Child and Youth Development representatives point out that this increased involvement positively impacts children’s social and emotional health, aligning with research from UNICEF’s East Asia office that found stronger father-child bonds boost resilience in young people (UNICEF, 2023).

For Thai families, this transformation offers several benefits. Children appear to thrive with more gender-balanced role models and shared parental attention. One primary school teacher in Bangkok observed, “During parent-teacher meetings since schools reopened, more fathers are attending and actively discussing their children’s learning progress. It is a notable shift.” Such engagement supports calls from educational experts for stronger home-school cooperation—a focus of the Ministry of Education’s new parental involvement guidelines released in 2024 (MOE Thailand).

Culturally, Thailand’s image of fatherhood is evolving. Television dramas and advertisements increasingly depict men changing diapers or helping with homework, reflecting and reinforcing this change. Some Buddhist teach-ins have referenced the concept of “khun” (moral merit) in active parenting, encouraging fathers to deepen bonds at home. Grassroots fatherhood networks, like groups in Chiang Mai and Khon Kaen, have grown in membership and visibility, offering workshops on positive discipline and co-parenting.

Still, challenges remain. Surveys reveal that not all Thai employers are supportive of flexible work for fathers, and take-up of the government’s paternity leave provisions is low compared to Europe or Japan (ILO Thailand). Traditional expectations persist, especially in rural areas where home caregiving is still strongly gendered. Women’s rights advocates emphasize that a sustained shift will require changes in workplace policies, expanded public awareness, and ongoing support from community leaders.

Looking forward, demographers predict that Thailand’s rapidly aging society and shrinking working-age population will make equitable domestic labor sharing a necessity. The hope encouraged by recent trends is that children growing up today will see involved fathers as the norm. The next generation of men may be better equipped—by experience and expectation—to balance work and home life, promoting gender equality and strengthening family bonds.

Thai families can take practical steps now: parents are encouraged to share household duties, speak openly about work-life challenges, and support each other in caring for children. Workplaces could pilot or expand flexible hours, and schools might increase father-focused outreach. By championing shared parenting, Thailand can improve outcomes for its children and families in a post-pandemic world.

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