A leading Indian sexologist has recently spotlighted the “extra time condom”—often marketed as prolonging sexual performance—as central to one of the most destructive myths about sex, urging people to stop believing that long-duration intercourse equates to sexual health or satisfaction. The expert’s warning, highlighted in a recent health report, adds to a growing chorus of medical voices pushing back against profit-driven misconceptions in sexual wellness (Hindustan Times).
This revelation resonates deeply in Thailand, a society navigating rapid modernization, shifting attitudes on sexuality, and rising interest in sexual health education. Thai consumers, like peers throughout Asia, are regularly exposed to aggressive advertising for “performance enhancing” products, including condoms promising to delay ejaculation. The implications are significant: not only do such myths create unrealistic expectations, but they may also foster anxiety, poor self-esteem, and unsafe sexual practices.
At the core of the myth debunked by the Indian sexologist is a belief that “real” or “satisfying” sex must last for 30 minutes or more, a notion reinforced by misleading media and advertisements for “extra time condoms.” In reality, medical professionals agree there’s no standard “correct” duration for sexual activity. More importantly, prioritizing marathon endurance overlooks emotional intimacy, communication, and mutual satisfaction—elements long recognized as key to fulfilling sexual relationships (Indian Express).
Despite the popularity of condoms containing numbing agents or prolonged-action chemicals, experts warn that their repeated use may prompt health risks, such as allergic reactions, irritation, or immunity to certain local anesthetics. Some users might experience adverse side effects, including loss of sensation for both partners, leading to reduced sexual pleasure and potential miscommunication. The emphasis on duration can also create performance anxiety—one of the most common yet underreported causes of sexual dissatisfaction in both men and women across Asia (Advanced Fertility Center).
In interviews, sexual health educators from multiple regions have emphasized that advertising narratives around “lasting longer” stem more from sales strategies than science. “There’s no medical evidence that an arbitrary threshold of 30 minutes is desirable or necessary for healthy sexual lives,” explained a reproductive health expert cited in public education campaigns across Asia. “Sex is deeply personal, and the focus should be on communication and mutual satisfaction—not on clock-watching or chemically induced endurance.”
Relevant to Thai audiences are lessons from widespread international sexual health education initiatives. A review in the medical literature underscores that condom use, regardless of variant, is first and foremost about reducing risk of unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Condoms remain one of the most effective and accessible tools for STI prevention in Thailand, a nation still facing rising rates of sexually transmitted diseases—especially among youth and vulnerable populations. According to the World Health Organization, correct and consistent condom use can reduce the risk of HIV and other STIs by as much as 80–90% (Wikipedia: Condom).
However, persistent myths and taboos around their “effect” on pleasure or performance continue to undermine public health campaigns. Thai sexologists affiliated with major government hospitals have noted that younger individuals, in particular, report feeling “pressure to perform” or to meet unrealistic standards set by digital media and aggressive product marketing. This, say experts, can backfire and lead to avoidance of condom use, risk-taking, or avoidance of open discussion about sexuality altogether.
The history of condoms reflects both technical innovation and shifting cultural attitudes. From their early use as protective sheaths to the development of modern latex varieties in the 20th century, condoms have always been mired in rumors and misinformation. In Thailand, where Buddhist culture historically influenced views on sexuality, present-day students report that parents, schools, and faith leaders remain inconsistent in delivering sexual health messages—leaving commercial actors to fill the gap, sometimes irresponsibly.
With Thailand’s push toward comprehensive sexuality education in the national curriculum, the issue at hand is the urgent need to ground discussions in science, rather than marketing hype or entrenched folklore. National health authorities continue to urge accurate and age-appropriate information for young people, including destigmatizing condom use and debunking dangerous myths about sexual performance. Leading public health educators at Bangkok’s major teaching hospitals highlight that, “Condoms are meant to protect, not to compete.”
Looking to the future, the challenge for Thailand—as elsewhere—is to ensure that both policy and practice prioritize facts over fads. This includes scrutinizing claims made by sexual wellness product manufacturers, fostering frank conversations about pleasure and consent, and integrating mental health support for those struggling with anxiety related to sexual performance.
For readers in Thailand, the takeaway is clear: discard the myth that “extra time condoms” or longer-lasting sex is the ultimate goal. Instead, embrace open dialogue with partners, seek information from medically trained experts, and remember that the healthiest sexual experience is defined by mutual respect, protection, and genuine connection—not by the stopwatch or a cleverly marketed package.
Actionable recommendations for Thai readers:
- Rely on information from trained sexual health professionals, not unverified advertising claims.
- Use condoms consistently for STI and pregnancy prevention; choose regular varieties unless medically indicated otherwise.
- Focus on communication, consent, and shared pleasure with partners.
- Participate in sexuality education workshops or resources offered by hospitals, universities, or NGOs.
- Seek professional help where anxiety or myths impact sexual health or quality of life.
For reliable guidance, contact Thailand’s Ministry of Public Health or visit recognized sexual health clinics for up-to-date information.
Sources: Hindustan Times, Indian Express, Wikipedia, Advanced Fertility Center