A man who claims to have “slept with 1,000 women” has made headlines by publicly expressing regret over his past lifestyle, citing significant negative impacts on his mental health. The candid admission, which has sparked widespread debate on social media and within health circles, highlights the often-overlooked psychological consequences linked to compulsive sexual behavior, particularly among men navigating cultural and social expectations.
The individual, whose personal story was reported in LADbible and has since gone viral, described his former approach to relationships as being driven by the pursuit of numbers rather than genuine connection. While this so-called “playboy lifestyle” is often celebrated or idealized in popular media, especially for men, his experience has exposed the hollow aftermath, including feelings of emptiness, loneliness, and persistent anxiety.
This confession is particularly relevant in Thailand, where traditional views on masculinity and sexuality still shape social norms. Although global attitudes towards sexual freedom have become more liberal in recent years, Thai society largely upholds notions of propriety, especially in public life. Among certain circles, however, a playboy image still commands respect. Commenting on the LADbible article, a clinical psychologist from a renowned Bangkok hospital explained, “The glorification of sexual conquest can mask serious underlying issues—such as low self-esteem, depression, or even sexual addiction—which tend to go unaddressed until the emotional cost becomes unbearable.”
Research published in international journals, such as the Archives of Sexual Behavior, suggests that promiscuous sexual behavior, especially when pursued for external validation, is associated with higher levels of psychological distress, impulsivity, and decreased relationship satisfaction. In Thailand, these findings are mirrored by local studies indicating that men who engage in high-risk sexual activities often report greater rates of anxiety and depressive symptoms, particularly as they age and seek more stable relationships (Thai Journal of Psychiatry). Health professionals warn that the excitement of frequent new encounters may offer temporary boosts to self-worth but can lead to chronic dissatisfaction and even difficulty forming lasting bonds.
The man at the center of the LADbible story shared that his compulsive behavior left him feeling disconnected from partners and himself, despite often being surrounded by people. “There was always a void I couldn’t fill,” he reflected, echoing sentiments heard in counseling offices worldwide. Thai sex educators and non-profit workers report similar patterns among clients, where the pressure to conform to a “macho” stereotype leads young men to prioritize quantity over quality in relationships, only to experience regrets later in life.
In Thailand, the conversation around sexual health often emphasizes physical risks—such as sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and unplanned pregnancies—but mental health impacts rarely receive the same attention. A sexual health educator at a leading Bangkok university emphasized, “We must start treating mental well-being as an equally important outcome of sexual behavior. Open discussion about the emotional consequences is still lacking—in schools, families, and the media.”
Historically, Thai society has placed a strong emphasis on monogamy and family structure, yet realities on the ground are shifting. The rise of dating apps and a globalized pop culture has made casual relationships more accessible than ever before, challenging old taboos while also introducing new risks. Psychologists argue that while personal freedom is important, so is self-awareness and emotional honesty. As the former playboy’s testimony circulates, it could help Thai audiences rethink their own views on love, sex, and happiness.
Going forward, experts suggest that increased public education around the link between sexual decision-making and mental health is urgently needed. Research from the World Health Organization indicates that comprehensive sex education—covering emotional, social, and psychological aspects—can help individuals of all backgrounds better evaluate their choices and avoid regret-driven lifestyles. For Thai readers, the lesson is clear: taking the time to seek meaningful connections and reflect on personal values may ultimately lead to more fulfilling, healthier lives.
For individuals concerned about their own patterns or struggling with similar feelings, mental health and counseling services are available through local hospitals, universities, and non-profit organizations. Confidential support can help guide those seeking a more authentic, satisfying approach to relationships.
Further reading and resources can be found via LADbible, Archives of Sexual Behavior, and the Thai Journal of Psychiatry.