#Anger

New research and expert guidance are throwing much-needed light on a common but rarely addressed challenge in long-term relationships—how to stop taking a partner’s anger personally and protect one’s own emotional wellbeing. Sparks of frustration, like a spouse’s irritated outburst over a spilled bowl of dog food, can feel deeply personal for their partner, even when the anger is not directed at them. This phenomenon, often invisible within the walls of family homes, has gained renewed attention thanks to popular advice platforms and psychological studies that resonate with everyday experiences of Thai couples and families.

A groundbreaking study, recently reported by prominent health news outlets and published in the journal Menopause, unveils that women between the ages of 35 and 55 tend to experience stronger feelings of anger as they age, but simultaneously become more skilled at managing and concealing these emotions. The research, which tracked participants over several decades, adds nuance to commonly held beliefs about midlife emotional well-being, and holds important lessons for Thai women navigating the physiological and psychological shifts of perimenopause and menopause.

A pioneering study published in July 2025 has found that women tend to experience a sharp decline in anger as they reach and move through midlife, challenging common assumptions about mood instability and emotional health during menopause. This research, featured in Menopause, the journal of The Menopause Society, provides new insights that could reshape how Thai women understand their own emotional trajectories as they age, and how healthcare providers support them through the menopause transition.

A new wave of psychological research suggests that, contrary to long-held beliefs about the dangers of anger, engaging with feelings of rage—specifically in the form of revenge fantasies—can play a pivotal role in the emotional processing and recovery of trauma survivors. According to a recent article by a leading trauma therapist published in Psychology Today, such fantasies may help restore feelings of empowerment and catalyse deeper healing, provided they are approached safely and under professional guidance (psychologytoday.com).

New findings published in the Journal of Psychology reveal that the way parents bond with their children can influence a young adult’s life satisfaction, and that this impact often travels through two powerful emotions: anxiety and anger. The study, led by researchers at an Italian university, shows that overprotective parenting may inadvertently fuel anxiety, while warm, caring parenting seems to promote better anger control—both of which affect how satisfied emerging adults are with their lives. This research shines new light on age-old questions faced by Thai families and educators about how to nurture resilient, well-adjusted future generations (PsyPost).

A recent psychological study has unveiled new insights into how the emotional environment created by parents plays a pivotal role in shaping the overall life satisfaction of young adults, with anxiety and anger emerging as crucial mediators in this relationship. The findings—published in the respected Journal of Psychology and summarized by PsyPost—underscore the complex interplay between parenting approaches, children’s emotional regulation, and their subsequent well-being well into adulthood.

For Thai readers, who often place significant cultural emphasis on family harmony, respect, and parental involvement, this research offers a valuable perspective on how the varying degrees of care—or overprotection—during childhood can have long-lasting psychological consequences. The study echoes long-standing Buddhist principles about emotional balance while highlighting the importance of practical parenting choices that foster independent emotional regulation.