#BoysDevelopment

A growing body of research investigated in a recent article in The Atlantic challenges conventional wisdom about how boys should be raised, revealing that gendered parenting and cultural expectations may be holding back the emotional and developmental well-being of boys. These findings carry special significance for parents and educators in Thailand, where traditional models of masculinity often shape family and school life.

In societies around the world, including Thailand, the prevailing narrative says that boys must be tough, stoic, and emotionally restrained to succeed in life. This perspective, fueled by generations of social customs and amplified by contemporary social media influencers as well as political rhetoric, encourages boys to suppress feelings in favor of physical strength and competition. However, new studies suggest that such approaches run counter to boys’ actual developmental needs and may have long-term negative effects, not just for the boys themselves but for wider society as well.

A new wave of research is challenging long-held assumptions about the differences in raising boys and girls, igniting an important conversation for Thai parents and educators. Recent findings, covered by The Atlantic in “What Parents of Boys Need to Know,” highlight how social norms and expectations — more than biology — shape the trajectories of boys, with implications for their education, emotional health, and long-term success. These insights are especially relevant in Thailand, where evolving gender roles intersect with traditional values, and where national education performance gaps have sparked public debate.