#Breakingtaboo

A recent personal story published by The Telegraph, titled “I was raised by an abusive mother. This is what I want people to know,” has once again brought to light the often-overlooked issue of maternal abuse and its profound, long-term effects on children. While parental abuse is commonly associated with fathers, stories and research are revealing that mothers, too, can be perpetrators, challenging both societal stereotypes and deeply held cultural assumptions. As this subject gains traction in Western media, there is growing recognition of its prevalence and implications for families around the world, including here in Thailand, where filial piety and family honor are especially significant.

A powerful personal account recently highlighted in The Telegraph sheds light on maternal abuse and the lasting harm it inflicts on children. While society often assumes fathers are the primary perpetrators, growing research and stories from survivors show that mothers can also be abusive. For Thai readers, this discussion intersects with local values around filial piety, family privacy, and social harmony, prompting a need for compassionate, informed conversation.

The story centers on a survivor who describes growing up under an emotionally and physically abusive mother. Beyond a personal tale, it challenges stigma and taboo surrounding maternal abuse. Many who have experienced similar family dynamics may feel seen for the first time, while others gain insight into this complex issue. In Thai culture, where motherhood is traditionally revered as nurturing, acknowledging abuse by a mother can be especially hard. Yet experts emphasize that abuse can occur in any family structure, regardless of outward appearances or social expectations. Data from international and regional research indicates that maternal abuse is more common than many assume and has serious consequences for child development.