#Caregiving

Vintage photographs and recent research reveal a remarkable evolution in fatherhood across the United States, shedding light on the changing roles of men in the family over centuries. This shift, deeply influenced by economic, social, and cultural forces, mirrors trends emerging in Thailand, where the landscape of parenting is also undergoing significant change.

For most of American history, fathers were the moral backbone of the family, directly responsible for raising children both through discipline and skills training. Before US industrialization, and tracing back to colonial times, historical analysis by social science experts shows that if children went astray, society often placed the blame squarely on the father’s shoulders. In rural communities, this accountability extended to teaching children practical skills—farming, hunting, and roles essential to communal survival (source).

A wave of new research is challenging long-held beliefs about the vows that bind couples—especially the promise to remain united “in sickness and in health.” Recent findings, published in the Journal of Marriage and Family and reported by Psychology Today in May 2025, reveal a surprising and deeply concerning trend: women who fall ill in their 50s and early 60s face a far greater risk of divorce than their male counterparts (psychologytoday.com). For Thailand—a country with a rapidly aging population and shifting social values—this revelation strikes at the heart of family resilience and gender equity.

A recently published European study has uncovered a deeply troubling trend in the world of late-life divorce: when wives in middle-aged marriages fall ill, the risk of divorce significantly increases, while the same does not hold true if it is the husband who becomes unwell. This discovery, revealed in February 2025 research appearing in the Journal of Marriage and Family and spotlighted in a widely-discussed article in Psychology Today, points to a persistent imbalance in marital roles and expectations that continue to shape the intimate lives of older adults across the globe—including in Thailand.

Burnout is more than just a buzzword—it’s an escalating crisis impacting health, happiness, and productivity worldwide, including in Thailand. Recent research and expert testimony from a high-profile conference in Miami highlight the seriousness of burnout and provide actionable strategies for individuals, families, and communities to address chronic stress. As the phenomenon becomes more widely recognized, mental health professionals urge everyone—from senior caregivers to students and the general workforce—to take burnout prevention seriously and adopt routine habits that foster resilience and joy.