As divorce rates remain steady, a new trend in co-parenting, called “birdnesting,” is drawing interest from parents worldwide—including in Thailand. The latest research and high-profile features, such as a recent piece in the Washington Post, shed light on how divorced couples are choosing to share the family home for the benefit of their children, even as they formally split as partners.
In a compelling case described by the Washington Post, parents who divorced chose to prioritize the stability of their children by keeping the family home as a shared, central residence. Rather than constantly moving their children back and forth between two homes, the former couple rotated in and out of the family apartment on a set schedule. This arrangement, dubbed “birdnesting,” is designed to minimize disruption for children during an often tumultuous period and to ensure that family routines and environments can be maintained, at least during the adjustment to a new family dynamic. According to the report, the former couple maintained an informal custody agreement, with the mother and father alternating time with their three children, leaving and arriving at clearly stipulated intervals to reduce friction Washington Post.