#Chores

A growing body of research suggests that when children tackle simple, imperfect chores, they gain more than a tidy home. Guided participation—where adults support rather than take over—builds independence, responsibility, and a sense of belonging.

Thai families have long valued children’s contributions at home, but patterns are shifting with urban living and changing family structures. An Atlantic feature notes that in pursuit of efficiency, some parents unintentionally curb kids’ willingness to help. This resonates in Thai urban households where smaller families and busier schedules shape daily chores.

A growing body of research and practical insights suggests that the small messes young children make while helping with chores may be far more valuable than a perfectly clean home. While many parents hope to encourage independence and responsibility by assigning tasks, the way chores are handled—and whether children are truly allowed to help—could make all the difference in children’s development and even lifelong attitudes.

For generations, Thai parents have expected children to help out at home, yet the specifics of those contributions and the expectations around them are changing. According to a recent article in The Atlantic, many parents, in their drive for efficiency and order, unintentionally discourage their children’s willingness to contribute. This is not merely a Western phenomenon; it echoes commonly observed patterns in urban Thai households, especially as lifestyles change and traditional extended family structures give way to smaller nuclear families.