#Cohousing

Families around the world are rethinking the boundaries of parenthood by turning to a model rooted in both ancient tradition and modern necessity—raising children together with trusted friends as an alternative or complement to family support. A recent in-depth feature by The Atlantic shines a spotlight on this emerging trend, revealing the practical challenges and deep rewards of creating a ‘chosen village’ for child-rearing in today’s fragmented social landscape. The insights from this story reflect an international movement with profound implications, not only for Western societies but also for countries like Thailand, where urbanization and changing family structures are reshaping childcare arrangements and community life.

A growing global trend is reshaping how families raise children: forming a “chosen village” of trusted friends to share parenting duties. An in-depth feature from The Atlantic examines how formalized, friendship-based co-parenting can ease modern stress while enriching children’s development. The piece speaks to a broader movement with implications for countries like Thailand, where urban life and shifting family structures are transforming childcare and community ties.

The article centers on a couple who, in 2023, relocated from Boston to Washington, D.C. Their best friends moved beside them, and another pair settled nearby. The aim was to support each other’s parenting while keeping trust and flexibility intact. Seven children wandered between homes as adults swapped childcare, meals, and emotional support. Despite logistical and cultural hurdles, participants reported greater social fulfillment and resilience than during solo parenting.