Daily Effort Is the Secret to Lasting Love: What Thai Couples Can Learn from a Psychologist
In a time when romantic relationships are often tested by busy schedules and constant digital distraction, a psychologist’s take on the single most important habit to keep love alive is both simple and surprisingly powerful: put in intentional effort every day, from both partners, and keep dating life with each other as a everyday practice. The lead story from Forbes centers on a long-running question in love, drawing from a large study of nearly 800 couples. It finds that when both spouses invest more effort into the relationship, happiness climbs and the fear of divorce recedes. Crucially, what matters most are ordinary, everyday actions rather than grand, one-off gestures. A telling moment from the piece comes from a participant who describes a meal shared after a long day: “I made dinner and (partner) came home. It was lovely to see him. We had a hug and chatted about our day. … What more could I want? After dinner (partner) put a song on he likes and we danced which was funny.” That small scene encapsulates the core idea: love endures through consistent acts of care that fit naturally into daily life.