#Emotionalregulation

For many Thai parents, the chaos that can erupt when picking up children from school—bags tossed, tempers flaring, tears streaming—can feel mystifying and exhausting. While hunger or tiredness are often blamed, a growing body of psychological research now confirms that “after-school restraint collapse” is a scientifically recognized phenomenon: children, after a day of tightly controlling their behavior, decompress explosively in their safe home environment.

International experts are drawing attention to restraint collapse as a key explanation for why young students, acclaimed by teachers as model pupils, often transform into a whirlwind of emotions the moment they arrive home. According to a recent report by HuffPost UK and mental health professionals like a British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) counsellor, these post-school meltdowns result from the intense mental, emotional, and social effort children invest in conforming to external expectations throughout the school day (HuffPost UK).

A growing number of parents and experts worldwide are highlighting that some “normal” parenting rules—long considered standard—may in fact cause lasting emotional damage to children, according to the latest digital debate and emerging scientific research. Recent discussions, sparked by a widely shared BuzzFeed article in July 2025, show how social media communities and mental health professionals increasingly question rules like constant teasing, forced affection, tough love, the suppression of children’s emotions, and respect for hierarchy regardless of mutual respect. Thai families, renowned for their warmth but also shaped by traditional hierarchies, may find these revelations particularly meaningful as the nation grapples with global trends in parenting and mental health.

A new study led by the University of Edinburgh has found that children who struggle to manage their emotions as early as age seven are at a much higher risk of developing anxiety and depression during their teenage years. The research, published in the Journal of Affective Disorders and funded by the UK’s Medical Research Foundation, tracked nearly 19,000 young people and uncovered a clear connection between early difficulties with emotion regulation and later internalizing problems such as sadness, worry, and fear. The findings highlight the critical importance of teaching emotional coping skills in childhood—a lesson with profound implications for parents and educators in Thailand and around the world Neuroscience News.

A recent study has found that strengthening inner speech through a guided self-talk intervention may help autistic children better manage their emotions, pointing to a promising new direction in autism care. Published in Autism Research on June 15, this pilot study introduces the “Thinking in Speech” (TiS) therapy—a novel approach that could address one of the most persistent daily challenges for children on the autism spectrum and their families: emotional dysregulation (source).

A significant breakthrough in chronic pain management has arrived, as new research reveals that learning to control emotions can bring meaningful, sustained relief to those suffering from persistent pain. A recently published clinical trial, led by a team at the University of New South Wales (UNSW) and reported by Neuroscience News, found that focusing on emotional regulation—not just physical symptoms—can significantly improve quality of life for chronic pain sufferers. This development is particularly significant for countries like Thailand, where chronic pain is a widespread but often poorly addressed health concern.

As mental health increasingly takes the national spotlight, a fresh wave of research and real-world practice is bringing simple but powerful techniques for emotional regulation right into homes and classrooms. Recent reporting in Greenville Online offers an inside look into mindfulness tools that are transforming how children—and their parents—navigate overwhelming feelings. At a time when Thai families are navigating post-pandemic anxieties, digital distractions, and shifting cultural expectations around emotional expression, these practical and evidence-backed strategies are highly relevant.