#Emotionalsensitivity

Many Thais have pondered the question: “Am I just too sensitive?” after a seemingly minor remark leaves a lasting hurt. Recent psychological research reveals that heightened emotional sensitivity is both more common and complex than previously thought, with roots in biology, life experiences, and cultural dynamics—and it is not simply a matter of “overreacting” or lacking toughness, as Thai conventional wisdom sometimes suggests.

Highly sensitive individuals tend to dwell on minor social slights—a friend’s offhand joke, a family member’s sharp comment, or being overlooked in a conversation—well beyond what others might consider reasonable. According to a leading US-based professor emeritus in psychology and neuroscience, these moments sting deeply because they signal diminished relational value: “It conveys that I don’t have a whole lot of relational value to you,” this expert explained in a recent interview. “You don’t value your connection with me, because if you did, you’d treat me better than this.” Some people, according to this researcher, simply feel these upsets more keenly than others, lacking the ability to emotionally brush them off easily.

A growing body of research shows that emotional sensitivity is common and multifaceted. It stems from biology, life experiences, and cultural dynamics—and it is not simply “overreacting.” This belief persists in Thai families and workplaces, but experts say sensitivity is a normal variation in human temperament.

Highly sensitive people tend to linger on small social slights—like a friend’s offhand joke or a sharp remark. In interviews, a prominent psychology and neuroscience scholar explains that these moments sting because they signal lower relational value: “It conveys that I don’t have a whole lot of relational value to you.” Some individuals feel emotions more intensely and may struggle to brush them off.