Parentification warning: Why Thai children shouldn’t be their parents’ best friends
A recent wave of psychology commentary is sounding alarms about a growing dynamic in families worldwide: children stepping into adult roles to shoulder emotional or practical burdens for their parents. In a recent discussion about parentification, experts warn that when kids take on responsibilities that aren’t developmentally appropriate, the effects can ripple across school, friendships, sleep, and long-term mental health. For Thai families, where close-knit households and intergenerational care are common, the risk can feel particularly relevant. The concern centers on a simple truth: warmth and closeness between parents and children are healthy only when boundaries allow children to grow, explore friendships, and learn from their own mistakes. When a child becomes a caregiver, mediator, or therapist to a stressed parent, that boundary blurs. The child may end up juggling roles that belong to adults, and the consequences can show up as emotional strain, physical symptoms, and difficulties down the road in intimate relationships or personal development.