Frugality at a Breaking Point: Thai Families Reassess Digital Habits and Boundaries
A recent Slate advice column has sparked a global debate about where thrift crosses into social missteps, after a reader exposed extreme cost-cutting by their parents—including using a former family friend’s paid streaming account without permission. Published on June 10, 2025, the piece highlights how money-saving measures can strain etiquette, ethics, and family bonds in the digital age.
For Thai readers, the story resonates in a society that prizes respect, family harmony, and communal sharing. Yet rising living costs and rapid digital change push families toward new, sometimes questionable, forms of frugality. The letter describes parents who are exceptionally budget-conscious yet not impoverished. They avoid extra expenses like hotel stays during visits and pet care services. The father’s three-year use of a brother’s ex-girlfriend’s Netflix password becomes a turning point, raising questions about privacy, trust, and whether to inform the ex-girlfriend or preserve family peace.