#Grandparents

As economic pressures mount and the cracks in formal childcare systems widen, a new wave of research and firsthand testimony draws attention to a silent but critical force sustaining families across generations—grandparents acting as unpaid caregivers. Recent reflections published in The Guardian highlight the dual drivers of love and necessity behind this trend, with grandparents stepping in not only to enrich their grandchildren’s lives, but simply to help families keep pace with work and rising living costs The Guardian.

Thailand’s grandparents emerge as the invisible backbone of the modern family structure, shouldering extraordinary caregiving responsibilities that bridge the gap between cultural tradition and economic necessity while the formal childcare system struggles to meet contemporary demands. This profound shift transforms beloved elders from respected advisors into essential primary caregivers, reflecting both the enduring strength of Thai family bonds and the mounting pressures created by rapid social and economic changes throughout the kingdom.

Grandparents across Thailand are stepping into the role of primary caregivers, bridging deep cultural traditions with the realities of today’s economy. This shift highlights the resilience of Thai families while underscoring mounting pressures from rapid social and economic change.

New research echoes what many Thai households already know: multi-generational living and grandparent-led childcare are cultural cornerstones. But the surge in economic strain, migration for work, and urbanization is testing these long-established patterns. The result is a growing reliance on older relatives to fill gaps left by gaps in formal childcare and public support.

Grandparents are stepping in as essential caregivers in Thailand, filling the gap created by rising childcare costs, uneven public services, and shifting work patterns. Across urban and rural communities, older generations balance caregiving with their own needs, enriching family life while facing real challenges.

In many households, grandparents do more than babysit. They help with morning routines, meals, reading, and after-school supervision. Research on family care in Southeast Asia shows that multigenerational arrangements are a practical response to income pressures and housing realities. As two-income households become more common and parents work away from extended families, the role of grandparents in daily childcare grows more central, underscoring the durability of family-based support in Thai society.

Across the world, grandparents are stepping in to fill the childcare gap left by soaring costs and insufficient support. A recent feature published in The Guardian highlights how “an overwhelming bond of love” is driving countless grandparents in the UK to take up sustained roles that look less like occasional babysitting and more like active parenting. This trend—rooted in love, necessity, and social circumstance—is not confined to the UK. Here in Thailand, shifting family structures, economic pressures, and policy gaps have likewise thrust grandparents into pivotal roles as childcare providers, producing both unique rewards and considerable challenges for Thai families.

Surveys and real-life stories show grandparents increasingly becoming primary caregivers for young children. The trend highlights pressures on modern families and the tough choices parents face when balancing work, costs, and care.

A notable case involves a grandmother who began helping for a short period but ended up caring for her grandchild for months. Her fatigue and back pain underscored the need for clear boundaries and sustainable arrangements.

This shift is global. In many countries, data show rising reliance on grandparents as childcare costs climb and work patterns change. In the United States, more than 2.7 million grandparents serve as the primary caregivers to their grandchildren, reflecting economic stress, changing family structures, and pandemic-era disruptions.

A rapidly growing body of research and real-world accounts reveal a significant shift in family dynamics worldwide, as more grandparents are stepping into the role of primary caregivers for young children—sometimes from the moment they’re born. This trend, which was recently thrown into sharp relief by a viral family advice story about parents “taking a break” from active childrearing since their baby’s birth, underscores the complex realities and pressures facing modern families today (Slate).

A new wave of research and expert advice has highlighted 16 crucial life lessons that parents and grandparents should instill in children, reflecting the latest insights from child psychologists and educators. The findings, recently featured by Parade magazine, underscore the pivotal role families play in shaping the emotional, cognitive, and social resilience of young people in an increasingly complex world Parade article.

For Thai families navigating fast-changing social norms and educational pressures, these expert-driven lessons offer both timeless wisdom and practical strategies to raise well-rounded, happy children. As society grapples with issues from digital overload to persistent academic stress, research shows that intergenerational guidance can provide children with the inner strength and values needed to thrive.

A new wave of expert guidance emphasizes 16 essential life lessons for children, drawn from child psychologists and educators. The guidance highlights how families shape emotional, cognitive, and social resilience in today’s complex world. The advice was featured by Parade magazine, underscoring the pivotal role families play in a child’s development.

For Thai households navigating fast-changing social norms and academic pressures, these lessons offer both time-tested wisdom and practical steps. In a society balancing digital overload with rising educational expectations, intergenerational guidance can help children cultivate inner strength and core values.

A recent study suggests that among four grandparents, maternal grandmothers often exert the strongest influence on grandchildren’s well-being. This finding adds depth to Thai family life discussions about intergenerational care and support in modern households.

In Thai culture, grandparents play a central role. Many families rely on extended kin, especially in rural areas, where grandparents frequently help care for children as parents work or migrate for economic reasons. Understanding which grandparent carries the greatest influence can help families plan support and guide policymakers in promoting child welfare.

A new study has revealed that among the four grandparents, one in particular may have a more profound effect on the lives of their grandchildren—a finding that offers fresh perspective on Thai family life and intergenerational support. Although the influence of grandparents is well-recognised in Thai culture, the research highlights the unique and measurable ways a specific grandparent can shape children’s well-being and development, reigniting conversations about the evolving dynamics of the modern Thai household.

A growing body of research and firsthand experience is reshaping the way families raise children. In a recent Guardian piece, journalist Marina Lopes distills five lessons from communities across the globe—Mozambique, Brazil, Malaysia, the Netherlands, and Singapore—about communal parenting, intergenerational support, and fostering independence. The article reinforces a trend toward more collaborative approaches to child-rearing, which resonates with Thai families navigating tradition and rapid change.

In Lopes’ narrative, the author details a personal experiment in Singapore: after the isolation of the pandemic, she and her spouse chose to live next door to their best friends and raise their kids together. Communal parenting, she notes, is practical and relieving. Sharing meals, coordinating playdates, dividing chores, and receiving guidance from trusted adults broaden a child’s support network and sense of belonging.

A rising tide of research and real-world experience is challenging the notion that parenting should be a solitary journey. In a compelling new article from The Guardian, journalist Marina Lopes shares five vital lessons from communities around the globe—Mozambique, Brazil, Malaysia, the Netherlands, and Singapore—highlighting the profound benefits of communal parenting, intergenerational support, and greater independence for children (“Please, yell at my kids! Five lessons I’ve learned about good parenting from around the world” The Guardian, 2025). Lopes’ revelations echo a growing body of research and hold special significance for Thai families balancing tradition and modernity in a time of rapid social change.