#Grief

A surge in reckless spending and gambling following the loss of a loved one, as described in a recent advice column on Slate, underscores a growing concern about the psychological toll of grief and its heavy financial consequences—an issue with deep resonance in Thailand, where debt inheritance and cultural attitudes toward family obligations shape the aftermath of bereavement. With families increasingly facing tough questions about responsibility for parental debts and lifelong support for adult children, new research reveals that grief can catalyze not only emotional turmoil but also destructive financial behaviors, raising alarms for Thai households navigating the complex web of filial duty and financial survival.

A growing body of research and poignant cultural narratives highlight how a boy’s sense of self and emotional wellbeing may be deeply shaped by the absence of a mother, whether through death, separation, or emotional neglect. According to a recent analysis in Psychology Today, boys who lose their mothers early in life or are separated from them—regardless of how loving their subsequent caregivers may be—face unique challenges that reverberate into adulthood, impacting attachment styles, emotional regulation, and even future relationships with women (psychologytoday.com).