Is Humor Strengthening or Straining Thai Relationships? A Fresh Look at Laughs, Boundaries, and Trust
Humor weaves through Thai life—from family meals and bustling markets to Songkran celebrations. New research shows humor can either strengthen bonds or quietly undermine them. Not every joke is harmless; some may erode trust, self-esteem, and emotional safety over time.
A seasoned psychologist distinguishes between benign humor—playful teasing, warmth, and self-enhancing jokes—and injurious humor such as sarcasm, ridicule, or passive contempt. The latter can hide power dynamics as light-hearted fun and weaken closeness. For Thai readers, where kreng-jai (face-saving) and harmony are central, distinguishing playful banter from harm is especially important for couples, friends, and families navigating conflict.