#Intergenerational

A new wave of research around intergenerational visits suggests that the most important steps to ensuring adult children and grandchildren actually want to visit—and enjoy the time together—are behavioral. The headline takeaway: let go of a handful of common parental habits that can unintentionally dampen warmth, create friction, or squeeze the spontaneity out of family gatherings. The findings resonate strongly in Thailand, where families have long valued closeness and where elders often play a central role in daily life, yet where modern work patterns, urban migration, and rising expectations around personal autonomy are reshaping how and when kin connect. For Thai readers, the message lands at a practical crossroads: how to preserve cherished family rituals while making visits truly welcoming for the younger generation.

As economic pressures mount and the cracks in formal childcare systems widen, a new wave of research and firsthand testimony draws attention to a silent but critical force sustaining families across generations—grandparents acting as unpaid caregivers. Recent reflections published in The Guardian highlight the dual drivers of love and necessity behind this trend, with grandparents stepping in not only to enrich their grandchildren’s lives, but simply to help families keep pace with work and rising living costs The Guardian.

Thailand’s grandparents emerge as the invisible backbone of the modern family structure, shouldering extraordinary caregiving responsibilities that bridge the gap between cultural tradition and economic necessity while the formal childcare system struggles to meet contemporary demands. This profound shift transforms beloved elders from respected advisors into essential primary caregivers, reflecting both the enduring strength of Thai family bonds and the mounting pressures created by rapid social and economic changes throughout the kingdom.

Grandparents across Thailand are stepping into the role of primary caregivers, bridging deep cultural traditions with the realities of today’s economy. This shift highlights the resilience of Thai families while underscoring mounting pressures from rapid social and economic change.

New research echoes what many Thai households already know: multi-generational living and grandparent-led childcare are cultural cornerstones. But the surge in economic strain, migration for work, and urbanization is testing these long-established patterns. The result is a growing reliance on older relatives to fill gaps left by gaps in formal childcare and public support.

Grandparents are stepping in as essential caregivers in Thailand, filling the gap created by rising childcare costs, uneven public services, and shifting work patterns. Across urban and rural communities, older generations balance caregiving with their own needs, enriching family life while facing real challenges.

In many households, grandparents do more than babysit. They help with morning routines, meals, reading, and after-school supervision. Research on family care in Southeast Asia shows that multigenerational arrangements are a practical response to income pressures and housing realities. As two-income households become more common and parents work away from extended families, the role of grandparents in daily childcare grows more central, underscoring the durability of family-based support in Thai society.

Across the world, grandparents are stepping in to fill the childcare gap left by soaring costs and insufficient support. A recent feature published in The Guardian highlights how “an overwhelming bond of love” is driving countless grandparents in the UK to take up sustained roles that look less like occasional babysitting and more like active parenting. This trend—rooted in love, necessity, and social circumstance—is not confined to the UK. Here in Thailand, shifting family structures, economic pressures, and policy gaps have likewise thrust grandparents into pivotal roles as childcare providers, producing both unique rewards and considerable challenges for Thai families.

A new wave of research and social commentary is sparking heated debate about how Generation Z – those born between the mid-1990s and early 2010s – are “protecting their peace” in ways that older generations often view as avoidance or shirking of responsibility. The recently published feature in VegOut Magazine highlights nine key behaviors, such as ghosting, preemptive blocking, and “therapy speak” shutdowns, which are being reevaluated in both Western and Asian societies, including Thailand, for their impacts on mental health, workplace culture, family relationships, and social cohesion (VegOutMag.com).

A wave of research and commentary is fueling debate about Gen Z’s approach to mental well-being. Born roughly from the mid-1990s to the early 2010s, this generation is praised for self-awareness and criticized by some elders as avoiding responsibility. A VegOut Magazine feature outlines nine behaviors—such as preemptive blocking and therapy-speak shutdowns—and examines their impacts on mental health, workplaces, families, and social cohesion. The discussion resonates in Thailand, where respect and harmony meet modern conversations on boundaries and well-being.

A strong family bond remains central for many Thai households as children grow into adults. Parents seek visits that feel genuine and warm, not merely a reminder of duty. By blending international research with Thai values, families can foster visits grounded in love, respect, and shared joy.

Thai culture values closeness, reflected in rituals like Songkran’s Rod Nam Dam Hua, which symbolize respect and affection. Yet modern life often keeps adult children away. Strengthening ties requires deliberate effort, open communication, and adaptability to changing circumstances.

For many Thai parents, the hope for a close-knit family does not end when children become adults and move out. The desire to be visited—not just remembered or dutifully acknowledged—remains strong, especially as the years pass. A recent article published by VegOut Magazine unpacks eight key habits that parents should rethink if they want to foster visits driven by love rather than obligation as they age (VegOut Magazine, 2025). These insights offer a timely reminder as Thailand faces shifting familial dynamics under urbanisation and generational change.

A new commentary published in Psychology Today proposes that storytelling is not just a cultural practice but a central mechanism through which human beings seek meaning, transmit values, and retain memories—a perspective supported by recent psychological research and resonant in societies worldwide, including Thailand. The analysis, reflecting on perspectives from noted psychiatrist Viktor E. Frankl and memory pioneer Hermann Ebbinghaus, underscores that the stories we tell—whether in families, classrooms, or broader media—profoundly shape our sense of identity, purpose, and well-being. As digital media reshapes how stories are shared, deliberation grows about the social quality of today’s storytelling and its effects on collective and individual meaning.

Storytelling goes beyond entertainment. It is a central mechanism through which people seek meaning, pass values, and preserve memories. This concept aligns with current psychology research and holds relevance for Thai communities as well. The discussion revisits Viktor E. Frankl’s will to meaning and memory pioneer Hermann Ebbinghaus, emphasizing how the stories we share—in families, classrooms, and the media—shape identity, purpose, and well-being. As digital platforms broaden how stories travel, scholars question the social quality of today’s narratives and their impact on individual and collective meaning.