#ParentalSupport

A growing wave of American parents are putting their own financial health and retirement plans at risk to help their adult children stay afloat—often at significant personal expense. Recent surveys and first-person accounts reveal that nearly half of American parents are now providing some level of financial assistance to their children over 18, signaling a profound shift in traditional family economics. Rising living costs, stagnating wages, and soaring housing prices have made it increasingly difficult for young adults to become financially independent, prompting many to return to the family home and rely on parental support long into adulthood.

As Thailand’s healthcare system modernises and more children with complex health needs survive and thrive, a crucial question is gaining prominence: are we truly supporting the parents who shoulder the day-to-day care of sick or disabled children—or could we be unintentionally making their burden heavier? Echoing concerns raised in a recent commentary by The Guardian, leading-edge research highlights that while the journey of parenting often appears communal, families dealing with illness or disability travel a far lonelier, more taxing road that requires nuanced support from society, healthcare providers, and government systems (The Guardian).

The personal experience recounted in a recent Salt Lake Tribune opinion piece—of an individual forced to sever ties with conservative, immigrant parents after coming out as LGBTQ+—is not only poignant but also, sadly, emblematic of a wider pattern documented by international and Thai research. As dialogue around LGBTQ+ acceptance grows more visible in public and family spheres, scientists are compiling evidence that family rejection sharply increases mental health risks, but that targeted interventions and rising social support can, over time, help break cycles of alienation and trauma.

A new wave of scientific studies and media analysis is shining a spotlight on a pressing crisis facing families worldwide—including those in Thailand: parental burnout has reached unprecedented levels, sparking debate over claims that “today’s parents are weaker than ever” (The Telegraph). As researchers, clinicians, and educators grapple with this phenomenon, experts warn that the toll on family well-being and child development could be far-reaching if action is not taken soon.

A major new study published in JAMA Internal Medicine has revealed a sharp and troubling decline in mental health among mothers in the United States over the past decade, a trend that experts say has wide-ranging implications for families, communities, and even international health policy—including in Thailand. The percentage of US mothers self-reporting “excellent” mental health plummeted from 38.4% in 2016 to just 25.8% in 2023, while the proportion rating their mental health as “fair” or “poor” soared by more than 60% during the same period. These findings, based on a nationally representative survey of nearly 200,000 mothers, shine an urgent spotlight on the challenges facing parents and the cascading consequences for child and societal well-being.

As exam season intensifies across Thailand, mental health experts are sounding the alarm over rising levels of psychological distress among teenagers, with mounting research showing that exam stress can easily spiral into more severe mental health challenges if left unaddressed. Recent expert commentary, together with new policy scrutiny, is shedding light on how parents and educators can identify the turning point where ordinary anxiety becomes a call for urgent intervention, and what steps actually help teens through this pressure-cooker period.

The recent candid conversation between comedic actors Amy Poehler and Will Arnett about co-parenting their teenage sons has sparked greater interest in the complexities and rewards of shared parenting following separation. As more Thai families mirror these global trends—balancing tradition and modernity—the latest research offers meaningful insights into how collaborative approaches can nurture adolescent autonomy, wellbeing, and a lasting sense of belonging in today’s evolving society (ABC News).

Poehler and Arnett—parents to teens Abel and Archie—recently shared on Arnett’s “SmartLess” podcast that their co-parenting journey is an ongoing process of flexibility, learning from mistakes, and supporting their children’s growth through listening and adaptability. Their reflections echo emerging international research, underscoring the value of mutual respect, open communication, and shared decision-making in modern co-parenting, especially when guiding adolescents through the critical years of self-discovery and independence.