#Parenting

For many Thai parents, the chaos that can erupt when picking up children from school—bags tossed, tempers flaring, tears streaming—can feel mystifying and exhausting. While hunger or tiredness are often blamed, a growing body of psychological research now confirms that “after-school restraint collapse” is a scientifically recognized phenomenon: children, after a day of tightly controlling their behavior, decompress explosively in their safe home environment.

International experts are drawing attention to restraint collapse as a key explanation for why young students, acclaimed by teachers as model pupils, often transform into a whirlwind of emotions the moment they arrive home. According to a recent report by HuffPost UK and mental health professionals like a British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) counsellor, these post-school meltdowns result from the intense mental, emotional, and social effort children invest in conforming to external expectations throughout the school day (HuffPost UK).

A new wave of fatherhood is challenging old stereotypes—yet for many men, the struggle against inherited patterns of anger remains deeply personal. Recent guidance from therapists and parenting specialists, as reported in a widely circulated HuffPost feature, reveals practical strategies to help fathers avoid becoming the “angry dad,” even if that was the model they grew up with. This latest spotlight is highly relevant to modern Thai society, where intergenerational parenting influences and evolving gender roles are increasingly discussed, but rarely so frankly on the subject of paternal emotional health.

A heated family debate over the use of tracking devices like AirTags to monitor children has sparked fresh discussion among parenting experts and child psychologists, as technology makes surveillance ever more accessible—even as trust and autonomy remain central pillars of healthy childhood development. The controversy, highlighted by a recent Slate advice column, lays bare a wider societal dilemma facing Thai and international families alike: How much is too much when it comes to monitoring kids for safety?

The passage from secondary school to university marks a profound transformation in family relationships—a reality increasingly recognized by Thai parents as their children head off to college. Recent discussions in international media, such as a feature in Business Insider about evolving parent-child dynamics when children attend university, are amplifying a topic that resonates strongly within Thailand’s own households. As more families engage with higher education, they are encountering new challenges—and opportunities—for connection, growth, and mutual understanding.

Global pop icon Rihanna has spoken candidly about how the legacy of her late father has fundamentally shaped her approach to raising her young children, offering insight into the profound influence familial bonds and childhood experiences have on parenting decisions. The singer, entrepreneur, and soon-to-be mother of three shared that her father’s recent passing in May at age 70 not only marked an emotional chapter in her life but also sparked reflection on the values she seeks to pass down to her sons—RZA, age three, Riot, nearly two, and a third child on the way with partner A$AP Rocky.

A recent viral article highlighting 47 extreme punishments experienced by children at the hands of their parents is fueling worldwide conversations over appropriate parenting, child welfare, and the thin line between discipline and abuse. Titled “That’s Torture”: 47 Children’s Punishments That Only Showed How Unfit Their Parents Were, the piece has generated an outpouring of personal stories, expert warnings, and demands for greater awareness of children’s rights, including among Thai families and educators.

A rapidly growing body of research and real-world accounts reveal a significant shift in family dynamics worldwide, as more grandparents are stepping into the role of primary caregivers for young children—sometimes from the moment they’re born. This trend, which was recently thrown into sharp relief by a viral family advice story about parents “taking a break” from active childrearing since their baby’s birth, underscores the complex realities and pressures facing modern families today (Slate).

A growing number of parents and experts worldwide are highlighting that some “normal” parenting rules—long considered standard—may in fact cause lasting emotional damage to children, according to the latest digital debate and emerging scientific research. Recent discussions, sparked by a widely shared BuzzFeed article in July 2025, show how social media communities and mental health professionals increasingly question rules like constant teasing, forced affection, tough love, the suppression of children’s emotions, and respect for hierarchy regardless of mutual respect. Thai families, renowned for their warmth but also shaped by traditional hierarchies, may find these revelations particularly meaningful as the nation grapples with global trends in parenting and mental health.

As the long Thai school holidays approach, a wave of questions arises about the way parents handle everyday misbehavior in young children. A recent discussion ignited by the article “Why shouldn’t we call children ‘naughty’?” from The Spectator challenges the conventional wisdom of using labels like “naughty” to describe children’s bad behavior. The apparent simplicity of the term belies its potential to shape a child’s developing sense of self and influence the way children respond to authority, discipline, and emotional challenges—not just in Western societies but also within Thai families adjusting to modern parenting philosophies.

As Thai families celebrate their children’s first loose tooth—a familiar childhood milestone—they may be witnessing another, far more hidden transformation: a dramatic shift in the child’s brain known as “wobbly-tooth puberty.” According to new research highlighted in sources such as the BBC’s recent feature and supported by studies published in Nature Human Behaviour, the age of six marks the beginning of “middle childhood,” a developmental stage long overlooked by scientists but now revealed to be a crucial turning point for both brain function and emotional intelligence (BBC Future; Nature).

The global decline in birth rates, long framed in terms of morality and cultural anxieties by right-wing commentators, is being recast by recent research as a problem rooted overwhelmingly in financial insecurity and systemic economic barriers. According to a groundbreaking United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA) survey, the majority of people worldwide—including Thais—are having fewer children than they desire, primarily because of economic limitations, rather than a loss of interest in family or cultural shifts decried by conservative voices. This pushback comes amid rising alarmism in Western media declaring a “birth-rate crisis” with disastrous economic and social consequences if not urgently addressed.

As concerns about children’s mental health and screen dependency rise globally, the call to “rewild” children—allowing them to spend summer away from smartphones—has become a powerful trend. Drawing inspiration from recent recommendations by the Raising the Nation Play Commission in the UK, new evidence suggests that a phone-free summer might not only curb digital overuse but also foster resilience, happiness, and social skills in young people. This movement comes at a crucial time as research and parent anecdotes paint a portrait of a generation described as “sedentary, scrolling and alone,” with smartphone use implicated in declining childhood wellbeing (The Times).

As AI-powered chatbots gain popularity among children and teens, new research and expert opinion suggest that digital companions—even those designed for friendly interaction—may undermine key aspects of kids’ social and emotional development. The latest article from The Atlantic, “AI Will Never Be Your Kid’s Friend,” spotlights concerns that frictionless AI friendships risk depriving youth of the vital lessons gained through authentic human relationships (The Atlantic).

The debate comes as more Thai families and schools embrace digital technologies—from chatbots that help with homework to virtual tutors designed to boost academic performance and provide emotional support. While these advances offer clear benefits in convenience and accessibility, experts warn against mistaking AI responsiveness for genuine friendship.

The latest research on creativity highlights a groundbreaking insight: fostering cross-domain thinking can transform ordinary minds into highly innovative ones, reshaping how parents and educators approach children’s learning. According to a new feature in Psychology Today, experts are now urging a shift from traditional, siloed education towards cultivating abilities that span multiple fields, arguing that this approach mirrors the habits of the world’s greatest thinkers and inventors (Psychology Today). This revelation holds significant potential for Thailand, where educational reform and national innovation are pressing priorities.

New research is shedding light on the complex challenges faced by families raising children with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), highlighting strategies that can foster family balance despite often overwhelming circumstances. As one of the most common childhood mental health diagnoses worldwide, ADHD not only disrupts classroom performance but reverberates through family life, impacting emotional well-being, relationships, and daily routines. The latest findings underscore the need for better understanding, targeted supports, and culturally sensitive guidance—an issue of growing urgency for Thai families grappling with rising ADHD diagnoses.

A new wave of millennial fathers is pushing to share parenting duties equally with their partners, but workplace culture and longstanding gender norms continue to place significant barriers in their way, according to recent research and widespread expert commentary. This growing tension between the desire to be present fathers and the realities of contemporary work life raises essential questions for families, companies, and policymakers not only in Western countries but also in societies like Thailand, where gender roles and work cultures are rapidly evolving.

A new psychological study suggests that the way children are parented—especially when that parenting is cold, abusive, or overly controlling—can have lasting effects on their adult lives, with certain personality traits serving as the connecting thread. Published in Psychological Reports, the research sheds light on why negative parenting is tied to later emotional, social, and occupational difficulties, and points to the key role of personality traits such as conscientiousness in explaining this link (PsyPost).

A spate of summer holidays and the growing challenge of accessible childcare have reignited debate among parents and policymakers: how young is too young to leave a child alone at home? A recent analysis based on Florida guidance, echoed in national recommendations, is drawing attention abroad—and raises important considerations for Thai families facing similar modern realities. According to a recent Miami Herald report, while Florida does not set a legal minimum age for children to stay home alone, state guidance and expert organizations generally recommend children under age 12 should not be left unsupervised, with those aged 12 and above suitable for short stints alone if they have shown maturity and preparedness.

Recent research and personal accounts are challenging traditional beliefs about the “ideal” age for motherhood, as more women worldwide are choosing to start families in their late 30s and early 40s—or, as in a widely shared feature from Business Insider, reflecting on the joys and obstacles of becoming a parent at 37 and 40. This trend, evident in Thailand and globally, is driven by evolving economic, social, and healthcare realities, reshaping the narrative on family planning, women’s health, and the definition of the “right time” for parenthood.

Recent insights from leading experts are shaking up long-held assumptions about the roots of youth delinquency, emphasizing that parental influence—while crucial—is not the sole factor determining whether children turn to crime. At a parent support meeting hosted by the Ammar Empowerment Network, a management professor from the University of the West Indies argued that society is too quick to blame parents for their children’s misdeeds, overlooking the complex interplay of environment, peer influence, and broader social context (“Parents ‘not always at fault’”, Nation News, July 2025).

Raising Generation Alpha, children born between 2010 and 2024, has become one of the most hotly debated topics among parents, educators, and researchers worldwide. Sparked anew by a recent firsthand essay in Spiked and reinforced by major new findings from Thai and global scholars, the reality of parenting in this digital, progressive, and complex era defies simple stereotypes. With Thai families encountering both unique opportunities and daunting dilemmas, the question of how best to nurture the youngest cohort remains deeply relevant and, at times, fraught.

A recent wave of parental discussion has emerged following a widely read advice column in Slate, in which a parent described the unsettling discovery that their teenage child had stolen a personal, “intimate” item from them. The incident, and the conflicting parental responses it generated, spotlight crucial questions at the intersection of adolescent development, privacy, consent, and healthy family communication—challenges familiar to Thai families navigating modern parenting.

In the Slate column, the parent expressed shock and discomfort upon learning that their adolescent had taken a deeply personal object. The parent’s spouse, in contrast, urged a more hands-off approach, advocating for letting the incident pass without confrontation. This difference in parental perspective mirrors a broader debate occurring in homes worldwide about how best to respond when boundaries are crossed within the family, especially as children move into the often confusing terrain of adolescence (Slate).

A new wave of research and storytelling is challenging longstanding perceptions of what it means to be a father in 21st-century Thailand, as highlighted by the recently launched book “Modern Fatherhood.” Drawing on the lived experiences of diverse fathers across Asia, the publication captures the evolving landscape of paternity, masculinity, and emotional connection—issues gaining traction in Thai society as traditional gender roles shift and families confront new realities.

For generations, Thai fathers were commonly expected to act as primary breadwinners and authority figures, often keeping emotional distance from their children. But as socioeconomic pressures and cultural influences change, fathers in urban and rural Thailand are increasingly reimagining their roles to include active caregiving, emotional vulnerability, and deeper engagement in their children’s lives. This trend parallels similar transformations in other parts of Asia, brought into the spotlight by the narratives compiled in “Modern Fatherhood,” published by Assouline and covered recently by Tatler Asia.

A new wave of research underscores the growing appeal of entrepreneurship among mothers, revealing a complex interplay between professional ambition, family responsibilities, and systemic barriers—especially within traditionally demanding fields like medicine. Drawing from a recent report by The Irish Times, women who choose to establish their own businesses cite freedom, better work-life balance, and greater autonomy as top motivations, yet continue to face pronounced hurdles including access to funding, childcare, and lingering cultural biases within the business and medical landscapes (irishtimes.com).