#Perfectionism

In a world increasingly dominated by tracking devices, wellness routines, and strict dietary regimens, the pursuit of being “perfectly healthy” is coming under the microscope. A growing body of research and expert opinion now suggests that the quest for perfect health might, paradoxically, be undermining well-being. A recent article published on MindBodyGreen, featuring insights from a health entrepreneur, sheds light on the hidden costs of health perfectionism and encourages a shift towards a more balanced, humane approach to well-being (MindBodyGreen).

A new analysis of family dynamics and parental stress has upended common assumptions about the optimal number of children to raise, revealing that, counterintuitively, four may be the magic number for the least stressful parenting experience, according to a widely shared 2013 survey by TODAY Parents. This finding, echoed by research and commentary from mental health professionals, is especially relevant in Thailand, where changing family structures, economic pressures, and social expectations are reframing the debate on ideal family size.

Recent research and mental health insights highlight a compelling reason for the common phenomenon of procrastination: a close interplay with anxiety that renders many people “stuck” in a cycle of avoidance, overwhelm, and guilt. Rather than chalking it up to poor time management or laziness, new findings suggest that procrastination may be a nervous system response to stress, with perfectionism fueling the cycle—an understanding that carries significant implications for Thai readers facing mounting work, family, or study obligations. This news draws on the latest commentary from licensed therapists and psychiatrists, offering practical, research-backed steps for breaking free from the pattern.

Therapists have identified a pervasive challenge particularly troubling for eldest daughters: an overwhelming sense of over-responsibility, which significantly affects their happiness and well-being. Drawing on both recent research and extensive professional experience, mental health experts now describe “eldest daughter syndrome”—a set of expectations and pressures uniquely experienced by firstborn girls—as a major factor in their long-term mental health outcomes. The concept strikes a chord with many, resonating powerfully within Thai families, where cultural traditions often reinforce the burdens shouldered by eldest children.