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A recent troubling case online involves a six-year-old who has repeatedly punched classmates, with parents dismissing the behavior. While alarming, this scenario mirrors a challenge many Thai families and teachers face: how to respond when a child’s aggression escalates beyond ordinary roughhousing. New research from the past year emphasizes that parental reaction can deeply influence a child’s social, emotional, and academic trajectory.

Childhood aggression involves intentionally harming others—physically, verbally, or relationally. Mild aggression can be a normal, developmentally expected phase as children test boundaries. But persistent or severe aggression that injures others signals a warning. The latest findings show that parents who ignore or downplay the behavior, hoping it will “go away,” may unintentionally reinforce it. This can lead to long-term difficulties in relationships, school performance, and emotional health. Data from reputable studies highlight the impact of parental style on a child’s trajectory.

A recent advice column caught the internet’s attention: a six-year-old boy has repeatedly punched classmates, leaving bruises, and his parents have dismissed this behavior as inconsequential. This scenario, while alarming, puts a spotlight on a challenge familiar to many families and educators in Thailand—how should parents and schools respond when a child’s aggression escalates beyond normal childhood roughhousing? Research over the past year offers new insight, emphasizing that how parents react can deeply shape a child’s future social and emotional development.