#Socialskills

A newly published analysis is shaking up popular beliefs about charisma, revealing that while this seemingly magical quality can boost career success and social influence, having too much of it may actually become a liability—especially for leaders. The findings, outlined in a recent column in The Atlantic, draw on extensive psychological research to dispel myths about the nature of charisma and offer practical advice for Thais interested in cultivating personal magnetism without overdoing it (The Atlantic).

A new study from an international team of researchers has uncovered a simple yet powerful eye contact trick that can instantly make someone appear more trustworthy. Published in the journal Royal Society Open Science, the findings suggest that it’s not just making eye contact that matters—it’s how and when you glance, lock eyes, and redirect your gaze that truly communicates intent and trustworthiness to others. This discovery holds implications for everything from everyday social encounters to the design of robots interacting with humans, raising questions about how such non-verbal cues are interpreted across different cultures, including Thailand.

As AI-powered chatbots gain popularity among children and teens, new research and expert opinion suggest that digital companions—even those designed for friendly interaction—may undermine key aspects of kids’ social and emotional development. The latest article from The Atlantic, “AI Will Never Be Your Kid’s Friend,” spotlights concerns that frictionless AI friendships risk depriving youth of the vital lessons gained through authentic human relationships (The Atlantic).

The debate comes as more Thai families and schools embrace digital technologies—from chatbots that help with homework to virtual tutors designed to boost academic performance and provide emotional support. While these advances offer clear benefits in convenience and accessibility, experts warn against mistaking AI responsiveness for genuine friendship.

Approach anxiety, the fear and discomfort associated with initiating conversations or interactions, especially in social, romantic, or unfamiliar contexts, remains a persistent challenge for many. According to the recent analysis by Dr. Nerdlove, featured in a widely circulated advice column, this anxiety can manifest acutely at large gatherings, such as conventions or meet-ups, where social barriers often feel insurmountable for those seeking connection. New research and psychological perspectives shed light on why this phenomenon is intensifying and how individuals, including Thai readers navigating changing social landscapes, can overcome it to foster better relationships, career growth, and mental well-being.

A new wave of psychological research is changing how we view personal sharing, suggesting that what we choose not to reveal in conversation can have a lasting impact on how others perceive and respect us. According to insights compiled in a recent article published on June 14, 2025, in VegOut Magazine, keeping certain aspects of our lives private isn’t just about mystery—it’s a key to earning deeper trust and admiration from our peers and communities. For Thai readers navigating a culture that highly values face and harmonious relationships, these findings offer actionable advice tailored to local sensibilities.

A communications specialist has revealed the biggest mistake people make during small talk and offered an actionable technique that could reshape how Thais nurture relationships, whether in social circles, educational contexts, or the workplace. As post-pandemic life in Thailand rekindles face-to-face interactions, mastering small talk is more important than ever—but it turns out many of us are making the same subtle social error that undermines genuine connection.

The core insight, as shared by a leading motivational speaker and communications expert on social media, is that the number one mistake in small talk is—ironically—focusing too much on ourselves rather than genuinely engaging with the other person. According to the expert, most people unintentionally steer conversations toward their own experiences or opinions, either out of habit or nervousness. This tendency, while natural, can stifle the dynamic energy of an interaction and leave both parties feeling unfulfilled. The fix, the expert says, lies in adopting a mindset of curious inquiry: instead of waiting for a turn to speak or relate everything to one’s own story, we should actively invite the other person to share more about themselves.