#Socialskills

A parent’s blunt confession—my kids swear and don’t say please or thank you, and I don’t care—has sparked a broader conversation about what actually shapes children’s social belonging and moral development. In recent studies and discussions, researchers are shifting away from a single-rules approach to politeness toward a richer picture: warmth, empathy, and real-time social skills may matter far more for healthy peer relationships than whether a child dutifully utters “please” and “thank you” every time. For Thai families balancing tradition with modern life, these ideas arrive with practical implications for parenting, classrooms, and community values.

Charisma helps leaders capture attention, but too much can undermine credibility. New research suggests that presence works best when paired with humility, reliability, and genuine connection. This refined view offers practical guidance for Thai audiences seeking to cultivate influence without overdoing it.

In Thai workplaces and communities, charisma—often expressed as confidence, charm, and the ability to “work the room”—draws interest across politics, business, education, and entertainment. The latest studies advocate a subtler approach: charisma thrives when balanced with warmth and authenticity rather than constant high-energy performances.

A newly published analysis is shaking up popular beliefs about charisma, revealing that while this seemingly magical quality can boost career success and social influence, having too much of it may actually become a liability—especially for leaders. The findings, outlined in a recent column in The Atlantic, draw on extensive psychological research to dispel myths about the nature of charisma and offer practical advice for Thais interested in cultivating personal magnetism without overdoing it (The Atlantic).

A new study from an international team of researchers has uncovered a simple yet powerful eye contact trick that can instantly make someone appear more trustworthy. Published in the journal Royal Society Open Science, the findings suggest that it’s not just making eye contact that matters—it’s how and when you glance, lock eyes, and redirect your gaze that truly communicates intent and trustworthiness to others. This discovery holds implications for everything from everyday social encounters to the design of robots interacting with humans, raising questions about how such non-verbal cues are interpreted across different cultures, including Thailand.

A growing body of research and expert opinion suggests AI-powered chatbots, even those crafted for friendly interaction, can hinder essential social and emotional development in children if treated as substitutes for real relationships. The Atlantic notes that frictionless AI friendships may skip the important lessons learned through human connection.

Thai families and schools are increasingly using digital tools—from homework helpers to virtual tutors—that aim to boost learning and provide emotional support. While these advances improve access and convenience, experts warn against mistaking AI responsiveness for genuine friendship.

As AI-powered chatbots gain popularity among children and teens, new research and expert opinion suggest that digital companions—even those designed for friendly interaction—may undermine key aspects of kids’ social and emotional development. The latest article from The Atlantic, “AI Will Never Be Your Kid’s Friend,” spotlights concerns that frictionless AI friendships risk depriving youth of the vital lessons gained through authentic human relationships (The Atlantic).

The debate comes as more Thai families and schools embrace digital technologies—from chatbots that help with homework to virtual tutors designed to boost academic performance and provide emotional support. While these advances offer clear benefits in convenience and accessibility, experts warn against mistaking AI responsiveness for genuine friendship.

Approach anxiety, the fear and discomfort associated with initiating conversations or interactions, especially in social, romantic, or unfamiliar contexts, remains a persistent challenge for many. According to the recent analysis by Dr. Nerdlove, featured in a widely circulated advice column, this anxiety can manifest acutely at large gatherings, such as conventions or meet-ups, where social barriers often feel insurmountable for those seeking connection. New research and psychological perspectives shed light on why this phenomenon is intensifying and how individuals, including Thai readers navigating changing social landscapes, can overcome it to foster better relationships, career growth, and mental well-being.

Approach anxiety—the discomfort of starting conversations or pursuing social contact—remains a common challenge for many, especially in large gatherings, online dating, or unfamiliar social scenes. Recent expert analyses and research offer clearer guidance on why it intensifies and how Thai readers can build confidence to improve relationships, career prospects, and mental health.

The rise of social anxiety disorders reflects a mix of pandemic isolation, economic uncertainty, and shifting cultural dynamics. In Thai communities, where harmony and avoiding conflict are valued, approach anxiety can feel particularly burdensome. People often fear appearing rude or causing others to lose face, which amplifies worries about rejection and embarrassment. Researchers note that social context matters: audiences at conventions, meet-ups, and gaming or pop culture events can feel crowded and exhausting, influencing how open someone feels to connect.

A new wave of psychological research is changing how we view personal sharing, suggesting that what we choose not to reveal in conversation can have a lasting impact on how others perceive and respect us. According to insights compiled in a recent article published on June 14, 2025, in VegOut Magazine, keeping certain aspects of our lives private isn’t just about mystery—it’s a key to earning deeper trust and admiration from our peers and communities. For Thai readers navigating a culture that highly values face and harmonious relationships, these findings offer actionable advice tailored to local sensibilities.

A fresh wave of psychology research suggests that choosing what not to reveal can strengthen how others view and respect you. Highlights from a June 14, 2025 article in VegOut Magazine advise readers to practice selective self-disclosure. For Thai audiences, these insights resonate with cultural values around face, harmony, and respectful relationships.

Respect and trust anchor Thai social life, from family dynamics to workplace hierarchies. As online sharing grows, many Thais wrestle with balancing openness and restraint. The research explains “self-disclosure overload”—the fatigue that comes when people overshare. Rather than deepen connections, excessive sharing can exhaust or deter others and erode respect.

A communications expert says the biggest pitfall in casual conversation is talking about oneself too much. A practical technique—asking thoughtful, open-ended questions—could strengthen connections at home, in schools, and at work across Thailand.

As Thailand resumes face-to-face interactions after the pandemic, mastering small talk is increasingly important. Yet many conversations still stall because speakers default to their own experiences or opinions. The remedy is to embrace curious inquiry: invite the other person to share more about themselves rather than waiting for a turn to speak.

A communications specialist has revealed the biggest mistake people make during small talk and offered an actionable technique that could reshape how Thais nurture relationships, whether in social circles, educational contexts, or the workplace. As post-pandemic life in Thailand rekindles face-to-face interactions, mastering small talk is more important than ever—but it turns out many of us are making the same subtle social error that undermines genuine connection.

The core insight, as shared by a leading motivational speaker and communications expert on social media, is that the number one mistake in small talk is—ironically—focusing too much on ourselves rather than genuinely engaging with the other person. According to the expert, most people unintentionally steer conversations toward their own experiences or opinions, either out of habit or nervousness. This tendency, while natural, can stifle the dynamic energy of an interaction and leave both parties feeling unfulfilled. The fix, the expert says, lies in adopting a mindset of curious inquiry: instead of waiting for a turn to speak or relate everything to one’s own story, we should actively invite the other person to share more about themselves.