When Parents Praise Effort, Girls Flourish: What the Latest Research Means for Thai Families
A child’s confidence can hinge on a single sentence. A husband’s offhand remark that his daughter is “not talented” can wound more than a moment of pride for the family photo. That uncomfortable scene, echoed in a popular advice piece about a parent who openly belittles his daughter, sits at the center of a growing conversation about how parents talk about talent, failure, and growth. New research in child development suggests a simple but powerful idea: praising effort, strategies, and learning processes—rather than labeling a child as inherently talented—can help girls and boys develop resilience, curiosity, and higher achievement over time. For Thai families navigating pillars of respect, harmony, and family pride, these findings offer a practical path to strengthen children’s motivation without compromising cultural values.