#Summerbreak

As the annual debate over how children should spend their lengthy school holidays reignites, a recent viral essay by an American mother has sparked conversation about the virtue—and potential pitfalls—of letting kids sleep late, use screens, and simply do nothing all summer. The article, published on July 13, 2025, by Business Insider, describes a parent intentionally allowing her children the freedom to enjoy “lazy days” reminiscent of 1980s summers: sleeping in, relaxing at home, and engaging in unstructured leisure, often involving digital devices. This parenting decision, while resonant for many, raises important questions about the effects of unrestricted sleep, screen use, and downtime on children’s health, social development, and academic readiness—concerns that resonate with Thai families as school and community routines transform during the long summer break.

As Thai university students increasingly pursue summer jobs or internships far from home, many parents are left coping with a complex blend of pride, sadness, and self-doubt—a phenomenon on the rise worldwide and now affecting countless families in Thailand. Recent advice columns and psychological research highlight a growing trend: instead of returning home for the holidays, many young adults choose to remain in their college towns, seeking independence and real-world experience, but leaving parents behind to face a sometimes painful sense of emptiness and loss (MLive).

While many might assume that the frantic energy of the holidays ranks as parents’ most challenging season, a growing body of research and recent surveys reveal a different reality—it’s the end of the school year, with its overlapping obligations and the looming, unstructured expanse of summer break, that weighs most heavily on parents’ minds. This pattern, observed in both American and Thai families, holds crucial lessons as societies increasingly recognize the need to support parents and children during transitional periods outside the academic calendar.