The Myth of Perfect Parenting: Why Technology and Expert Advice Can't Optimize Child-Rearing
In a world increasingly obsessed with self-optimization, a growing body of research and analysis is challenging the pervasive belief that parenthood can be engineered to perfection with the right information, gadgets, and expert systems. This theme is powerfully dissected in a new book by a prominent New York Times critic and has sparked widespread discussion about the futility of “optimizing” the unpredictable journey of raising children (The Atlantic).
The book, “Second Life: Having a Child in the Digital Age,” draws on both personal narrative and historical contrast to illustrate a central point: no amount of preparation or digital intervention can fully equip parents for the reality of parenthood. This argument resonates strongly at a time when Thai parents, like their American counterparts, increasingly turn to online communities, parental guidance apps, and a vast constellation of expert advice in hopes of mastering the challenges of child-rearing.