#TeenDevelopment

A widely read parenting discussion sparked by a Slate column highlights a mother who demanded access to her 13-year-old daughter’s diary. The debate centers on whether parental supervision protects or undermines a teen’s emotional growth and autonomy. While rooted in one family, the issue resonates with Thai families balancing safety with growing independence.

In Thailand, the topic hits home. With smartphones, digital diaries, and instant messaging, many parents worry about online activity and safety. Yet child development experts warn that excessive monitoring—whether reading diaries or tracking online behavior—can erode trust and hinder a teen’s journey toward self-discovery.

A recent parenting advice column in Slate sparked heated discussion about parental boundaries and adolescent privacy after featuring a case in which a mother gave her 13-year-old daughter a diary—on condition that she be allowed to read it. The father’s concerns, echoed by parenting experts, centre on the risk that such surveillance could erode trust and impact a young person’s developing sense of autonomy and emotional wellbeing. This conversation, though emerging from a single family’s dilemma, mirrors broader debates in Thailand and globally about how parents should balance child safety with respect for adolescent privacy.