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A wave of new research is calling into question the widely held assumptions about parental influence that have driven generations of mothers to feel overwhelming guilt for every misstep. As digital platforms and parenting “experts” continue to amplify messages about the supposed lifelong impacts of everyday parenting choices, psychologists and researchers are now pushing back against the idea that mothers alone determine the psychological fate of their children. The latest findings challenge not only traditional advice but also the culture of maternal self-blame that has become pervasive in societies such as Thailand, where family bonds are central and mothers are often seen as the linchpin of child development.

A generational shift in attitudes toward parenthood among millennials is attracting global attention, with experts debating whether today’s young adults are “childless” by circumstance or proudly “child free” by choice. A recent series of opinion letters in The New York Times highlights the nuanced perspectives within this ongoing discussion, reflecting broader societal changes and raising important questions about the future of family, well-being, and society both in the United States and around the world, including Thailand. In examining the latest research and public debate, it becomes clear that decision-making on children among millennials is far more complex than previously assumed, as economic concerns, cultural values, and social expectations all play pivotal roles (New York Times).